Tops, what are you looking for in a bottom?

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    Jun 02, 2016 4:57 PM GMT
    Tops, what are you looking for in a bottom?
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 02, 2016 5:07 PM GMT
    First I like to know he's there having a good time. Thant can be sound or the way he moves with me but communication and active participation. I don't really need the whole "power-bottom" thing and I sure don't need his best rendition of what he heard in his porn collection (Oh yeah--gimmie that big dick) but I don't want him to be a non-participant. Screaming is always nice. lol
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    Jun 02, 2016 5:26 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidFirst I like to know he's there having a good time. Thant can be sound or the way he moves with me but communication and active participation. I don't really need the whole "power-bottom" thing and I sure don't need his best rendition of what he heard in his porn collection (Oh yeah--gimmie that big dick) but I don't want him to be a non-participant. Screaming is always nice. lol

    Lol sorry I meant as in dating ... Not sex... Like a boyfriend
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 02, 2016 5:42 PM GMT
    lol. I'm partnered now but when i was shopping, I'd look for a solid, educated, grounded guy that also liked some adventure and would take a risk every now and then. Similarities when it came to outlook and achievement but also enough differences that we both brought something new to the table that the other appreciated. My partner is much younger and Asian and I certainly never expected that. I'd always dated in my own age group (more or less) but we met and knew immediately that this was a good match temperament-wise. And that we were both extremely turned on by the other sexually. (That's important.) Everything else we figured out as we went along. And we had some big hurdles. Nine years this August.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 03, 2016 5:14 AM GMT
    I always end up dating a boy who is 99% my mother sadly.
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    Jun 10, 2016 5:04 AM GMT
    Apparition saidI always end up dating a boy who is 99% my mother sadly.

    Hahahaha this! I relate completely