mesa999 saidPlease help! I don't know what I should do, I love my boyfriend very, very much, he is alot younger at 22, I'm 45. We seem we have a decent relationship until I caught him cheating on me on Grindr, he actually hooked up and had sex while in a relationship with me. I love him and I forgave him but he still refuses to get off the damn app and just need advice .... is this over? Should I just leave him and never talk to him again? He's young and probably using really bad judgement. I pay for everything for him, his rent, food, cell phone, clothes and I get shit on!
I'm lost, I probably know what I need to do but I'm just so in love with him but I'm not getting it back at all. I hate Grindr and it's effects on relationships.
You deserve everything this youngling is dishing out. It boggles my mind that you at 45 are involved with someone who is 22. But continue on and I pray he takes you for everything you've got.
I cut with him today, was very hard to let him go and I told him to never contact me ever again be it by phone, text, third party or social media. I deleted grindr on my end and told him I don't care what he does from this point on and that if he wants to now be on grindr 24/7 that it's fine with me.
He ended the conversation saying that I didn't get him all the things he needed like a car in his name, new clothes, tattoos and piercings, I'm in shock and very grateful I didn't spend any more money on him!
This is my life's lesson today, I'm just very hurt and down and it will take me time to recover from this. I loved him with all my heart but he didn't at the end and that's what really hurts. If I hadn't of caught him cheating I would had continued to pay his bills, give him the finer things in life. Now that's all gone for him and I need to move on and find someone who actually cares and loves me. Thanks for all the comments,I've read each one and I appreciate them all!