Do you let a man know if his flies are undone?

  • nice_chap

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    Jun 10, 2016 3:03 PM GMT
    So you're out in public or at work or whatever and you notice a man has his flies undone. Regardless of whether the bloke is straight or not (and lets just say he's attractive) do you let him know his zip is open, or do you just pretend not to notice and think dirty thoughts to yourself? Just wondering... icon_redface.gif
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    Jun 10, 2016 3:09 PM GMT
    ignore it for your own good
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    Jun 10, 2016 4:22 PM GMT
    I want to be told , and i definitely mention it to a bloke who has his trousers fly open .
    We do have a saying here : " your stable's door is open , and the horse is looking out " , which now days has been shortened to : " your stable's door is open " mate !
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    Jun 10, 2016 5:03 PM GMT
    How do you let the man know? Tell him, or give him a hands-on demonstration of his unzipped condition? icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 10, 2016 5:38 PM GMT
    How does one know his flies are undone? What kind of guy keeps flies and why should I care if his flies are upset?
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    Jun 10, 2016 5:51 PM GMT
    As opposed to a woman who's fly is undone??
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    Jun 10, 2016 5:52 PM GMT
    common courtesy to tell guy his fly is down...
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    Jun 10, 2016 6:18 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidAs opposed to a woman who's fly is undone??
    this is a gay site most people here aren't looking at women's crotches.
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    Jun 10, 2016 6:21 PM GMT
    Not4u said
    Erik101 saidAs opposed to a woman who's fly is undone??
    this is a gay site most people here aren't looking at women's crotches.


    The bisexuals on here are looking at women's crotches.
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    Jun 10, 2016 11:37 PM GMT
    My first date with I guy I had been corresponding with...after brunch, in a thrift shop, I happened to notice, and he was uncertain if I was in to him, I reached down to pull his zipper up and he smacked my hand away not knowing his fly was undone. A few hours later he was begging me to fuck him up the ass....

    Life...;-)

    p.s. and yes, I did...several times...
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    Jun 11, 2016 12:02 AM GMT
    Do You Let A Man Know If His Flies Are Undone?

    How many flies does a man have?

    Somewhat related to this topic, do you let a man know his stuff is hanging out, when women are present?

    I was in a co-ed sauna in an Army gym. Men & women were either wearing gym shorts & T-shirts, or else swim suits . There was an indoor swimming pool in that same gym facility, and this guy had on fairly brief square cuts. He was sitting sideways on an upper bench, his feet also on the same bench with legs drawn up.

    I was on a lower bench. Looking up I noticed his left ball had popped out of his swim trunks, hanging loose very obviously. I have no idea how he could not have felt or noticed it. Sitting sideways facing him were several female soldiers.

    They didn't say anything or react. Had they not seen it? His ball was right out there. Maybe they were amused by it. So do I try to say anything to him, maybe lean forward and whisper in his ear? I couldn't get his eye attention, since he had them closed. Can't be loud and obvious in such a confined space. And maybe his adjusting himself might draw attention to his condition.

    I finally decided to do nothing. When I left he was still there, with his exposed bare ball. I figured if the women were offended let them to be the ones to say something.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 11, 2016 12:11 AM GMT
    just ask if it is rock out with your cock out day.
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    Jun 11, 2016 2:52 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    Not4u said
    Erik101 saidAs opposed to a woman who's fly is undone??
    this is a gay site most people here aren't looking at women's crotches.


    The bisexuals on here are looking at women's crotches.


    There's nothing to see in a woman's crotch unless you think camel toe is attractive. I'd suspect real bisexuals would be looking at their breasts and ass.
  • Trauts

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    Jun 11, 2016 6:42 AM GMT
    I'd let him know. I would want someone to tell me if I had veg on my teeth
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    Jun 11, 2016 8:32 AM GMT
    I wouldn't tell a man that his flies are undone, regarding the person is attractive I would just get a little bit closer to see if he has a hard on or just wait there until he gets a hard on.
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    Jun 11, 2016 12:03 PM GMT
    Some guys in gay clubs & bars have an interesting habit regarding button flies: leaving 1 or 2 undone. Since they're typically heavy denim jeans you can't actually see inside, but you can see that the buttons aren't closed. I'm familiar with the bottom button of a suit vest being left undone, a custom supposedly originating out of necessity in the late 19th Century by Edward, Prince of Wales, Queen Victoria's rotund son and future King.

    But regarding the button fly custom I can only speculate. I've never asked a guy about it. I gather some just feel it's the fashion. Others that it's an "open" invitation, sorta like a hanky code for the front. And in some clubs that allow (or even promote) easy behavior, an offer to visit a back patio, the men's room, or some private space.

    Is this practiced where you live? What are your thoughts about it?
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    Jun 11, 2016 2:15 PM GMT
    I zip it for them.
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    Jun 11, 2016 4:15 PM GMT
    DOMINUS said
    I zip it for them.

    Up or down?
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    Jun 11, 2016 5:30 PM GMT
    I'm usually the one who unzipped it, so..... icon_redface.gif
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    Jun 11, 2016 8:01 PM GMT
    Must be a generational thing. To me it would be rude if someone saw and didn't tell me that my fly was open. Similarly if someone had some toilet paper stuck to his shoe.
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    Jun 11, 2016 8:26 PM GMT
    Yes. And I'd tell a woman when toilet paper was trailing from her shoe, too.