Stalking a dude

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    Jun 25, 2016 1:19 AM GMT
    I visit Santa Monica a lot, and there was this hot guy who came out a store as I was passing by. He was wearing a USA cap and tank top and shorts. I think he must have been an athlete because of his vibes and body. Anyway I followed him to the traffic light in the 3rd Street Promenade. He stood at the edge of the street waiting for the light to turn green. I sort of stayed a few feet behind him entranced. He noticed. I crossed the street and kept walking and got a boner. He was walking in the middle of the street. I kept trying to hide my boner. Then I walked past him for the final stretch and my boner disappeared and I went into Barnes and Noble. I went to the third floor and found a book on Asperger's syndrome. I saw that the guy came up the escalator too. I just kept skimming through the book. He came closer and looked at the books. I gave him a look and kept on reading. He went back down the escalator. I followed him to the second floor. He went to the escalator down to the first floor. I went to the LSAT study guide section. Shit. How do I find him and ask him if he's gay?
  • carew28

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    Jun 26, 2016 9:58 PM GMT
    I guess that that is something that we all go through. We see some good-looking guy on the street, in a mall, or in some other public place that we are instantly attracted to. If you've got the nerve, and if the circumstances are right, you can start up a conversation by making some sort of neutral comment (i.e. "do you know what time it is" " can you give me directions to Main St." ). But most of the time, the opportunity is lost, and we just have a pleasant, fleeting memory. I think it's just part of the human condition, and it's one of those fleeting bittersweet memories that make up the fabric of out lives.
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    Jun 28, 2016 7:06 PM GMT
    Last night I was waiting at an outdoor patio garden area under the trees for a friend - we were going to get some yogurt & have it outside, and just hang out for awhile. It was after dinner. I was on my phone texting a client back & forth. I saw a good looking hunk around age 30 or so about 20 feet away - looking at me while checking his phone. This went on for several minutes. The guy was then walking around - sort of pacing back and forth but staying close by & keeping the eye contact with me going. We were both trying not to stare at each other but we were definitely cruising each other. Finally he headed my way & came right up to me asking if I was on Grinder. I said I wasn't & we talked for a short moment and then my friend appeared. The hunky guy sort of kept looking at his phone and walking around - but staying close by. He got in line at the yogurt place with us. Later we were sitting outside eating and he sort of appeared again - still looking my way - then looking away when I'd glance back at him. I kind of regret not talking to him more & exchanging numbers for another time!