To all the 20-something guys in MONOGAMOUS relationships...

  • dannyboy1101

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    Feb 11, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    Where did you meet your fantastic man? I don't know if I have a falsely infamous reputation because I used to work at a popular gay bar or if I've hit some sort of mid-twenties slump, but I would have an easier time teaching a dyslexic to read arabic than I am finding a good date with someone I'm actually attracted to. Meeting through work is a dead end, and the bars just seem to be a visual playground - nobody talks to anyone they don't already know. And then there's the internet... nuf said. Am I missing the magic fountain of love? Am I looking in all the wrong places? Is 26 too young and too old? Your input is welcome, yes, all three of you.
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    Feb 11, 2009 1:26 AM GMT
    Location. Location. Location.

    Move to Southern Maine heheicon_razz.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 1:34 AM GMT
    Yeah, cjcscuba is probably right about the location thing. I met my boyfriend through Facebook, so sometimes relationships with people you meet online do work! I guess the best way to meet somebody, besides moving to San Francisco or West Hollywood, would be to join groups that you're interested in and maybe you'll meet somebody there, and you would even have a common interest. Good luck! icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 1:41 AM GMT
    i met my guy on here...and i'm in chicago too, so there ya go icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    I met my bf on here as well, and everything is working out great so far.
  • justinscotts

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    Feb 11, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
    hang in there, you may just find him where you least expect.

    I went through a nice slump, with this guy, ups and downs, and after the last break up, we remained friends. I went to his birthday party and met the guy I have woken up next to for the last 3 years. We actually both dated the other guy, and found each other.

    Funny enough, I actually went on a date with another one of his ex's before I met him, as well as his roommate at the time. So funny we never met...icon_lol.gif
  • Delivis

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    Feb 11, 2009 2:49 AM GMT
    On here.
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    Feb 11, 2009 2:51 AM GMT
    Met mine on myspace
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    Feb 11, 2009 3:07 AM GMT
    There is never some type of magical equation for meeting a good guy. Its all up to chance. I happened to meet my boyfriend when I was a sophomore in college. Nothing ever came of it, he lives in my hometown and I was living away at school. Years later, we were randomly introduced by a mutual friend and it just clicked! He is an AMAZING GUY, I am definitely a super lucky guy!
  • torontoguy222...

    Posts: 410

    Feb 11, 2009 3:08 AM GMT
    On here! Although he'd seen me around campus for awhile, we'd just never spoken. He thought I was straight (lmao!) til he found me on here.

    Thanks RJ!
    Tony
  • kaccioto

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    Feb 11, 2009 3:09 AM GMT


    work function...we were goofing around, didn't know we were homos until 4 hours later, no joke

    funny part is we were both big time sluts in college and never pictured each other as ltr type at least until 30's...who knows anymore
  • DCEric

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    Feb 11, 2009 3:11 AM GMT
    Join activities you are interested in. Thinking about photography? Take a class. Like running join a running club.

    The key is to meet as many people as possible to increase your chances and, as danielryan said, it's all up to chance. Increasing the number of people you come in contact with will increase your chances of finding the right one. Better yet, you will have something in common with him.
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    Feb 11, 2009 3:40 AM GMT
    A wedding
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    Feb 11, 2009 3:44 AM GMT
    i want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 3:44 AM GMT
    At the morgue
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    Feb 11, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    MeanMikey saidi want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif


    Ha! Me too!
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:00 AM GMT
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey saidi want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif


    Ha! Me too!


    sweet lets go out
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:06 AM GMT
    MeanMikey said
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey saidi want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif


    Ha! Me too!


    sweet lets go out


    Ok... but you have to move to Cali because I have issues with the Lone Star State... (that and I love my fresh veggies, beaches, and "fruits and nuts.")
    also: how mean are you?!?

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    Feb 11, 2009 4:08 AM GMT
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey said
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey saidi want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif


    Ha! Me too!


    sweet lets go out


    Ok... but you have to move to Cali because I have issues with the Lone Star State... (that and I love my fresh veggies, beaches, and "fruits and nuts.")
    also: how mean are you?!?



    haha sweet i used to live in san diego and im moving back anyways! im not mean at all icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:09 AM GMT
    MeanMikey said
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey said
    scarabboy said
    MeanMikey saidi want a bf from RJ icon_sad.gif


    Ha! Me too!


    sweet lets go out


    Ok... but you have to move to Cali because I have issues with the Lone Star State... (that and I love my fresh veggies, beaches, and "fruits and nuts.")
    also: how mean are you?!?



    haha sweet i used to live in san diego and im moving back anyways! im not mean at all icon_razz.gif


    Well... SD is still a bit away... but we could probably arrange something... esp. now that I know you aren't really mean...
    although sometimes I can be! SSSHHHHH don't tell.
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:13 AM GMT
    lol cute, ur gunna make me go blind with that small font. but i get the gist of it icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
    um.... I have a really nasty comment to go with that (but I will refrain) icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:16 AM GMT
    why refrain? its night time, its time for the "Evening" chats
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:17 AM GMT
    hahahaha
    ok then...
    I was going to say:
    "Oh I have ways to make you go blind"
    or something of that nature....icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 11, 2009 4:18 AM GMT
    scarabboy saidhahahaha
    ok then...
    I was going to say:
    "Oh I have ways to make you go blind"
    or something of that nature....icon_redface.gif



    hahaha, i dont get it....