Jul 06, 2016 6:26 PM GMT
I wrote a forum last based on "Finding Love is Challenging" and read and replied to another forum based on "Still Single ". I think in a way that it actually helped me get a better handle on my situation and I also felt that I was trying to help others as well too that are facing the same challenges.
To be perfectly honest, I found that all this that was going on with me wasn't so bad after all. I had to take a good look at myself and look back to all the other wonderful people and things I have and accomplished in life, and get a better understanding of myself that maybe I'm not so alone after all. Yes, I met some people here and I think over time I showed them I was being in need of having a date and all the sudden I think they stopped talking me because I said something that turned them off with me. So, after figuring that out, I took that as a valuable lesson and also learning how to be careful about people you meet on the internet. And apparently the ones I met here are obviously doing the right thing by protecting themselves as well and I think something unknown is looking out for me as well.
So apparently finding a date and romance shouldn't have to be at the top of my list. Do I regret meeting people here on this site? No I don't regret it. I think honestly it was a great experience and perhaps a lesson too on how I talk to them here.
I was told by a friend of mine that the old saying of "it will come when you least expect it". Perhaps that's so true. You can't take everything for granted. So, I started keeping that kind of thinking and still go out in my free time and just meet new people and make more friends is way better than going out asking for a date. Of course you never know what may come next of out it. But, I'm just taking things slow and trying to enjoy everything I got and not be so needy. Generally speaking that being single and alone is so bad, well, it's really what you make of it and the choices you make the lead you in different directions in life and fixing the current situation that's making you feel negative about the situation.
To be perfectly honest, I found that all this that was going on with me wasn't so bad after all. I had to take a good look at myself and look back to all the other wonderful people and things I have and accomplished in life, and get a better understanding of myself that maybe I'm not so alone after all. Yes, I met some people here and I think over time I showed them I was being in need of having a date and all the sudden I think they stopped talking me because I said something that turned them off with me. So, after figuring that out, I took that as a valuable lesson and also learning how to be careful about people you meet on the internet. And apparently the ones I met here are obviously doing the right thing by protecting themselves as well and I think something unknown is looking out for me as well.
So apparently finding a date and romance shouldn't have to be at the top of my list. Do I regret meeting people here on this site? No I don't regret it. I think honestly it was a great experience and perhaps a lesson too on how I talk to them here.
I was told by a friend of mine that the old saying of "it will come when you least expect it". Perhaps that's so true. You can't take everything for granted. So, I started keeping that kind of thinking and still go out in my free time and just meet new people and make more friends is way better than going out asking for a date. Of course you never know what may come next of out it. But, I'm just taking things slow and trying to enjoy everything I got and not be so needy. Generally speaking that being single and alone is so bad, well, it's really what you make of it and the choices you make the lead you in different directions in life and fixing the current situation that's making you feel negative about the situation.
. But with the kind of person I am, I prefer relationships to being single. 
