Fireworkz saidI can't believe the prejudice here.
It's hardly a small demographic. Most black gays are college educated. Even in England you can find this demographic. I know a few in America and i dont live there.. The issue is not that they don't exist the issue is 1) you are looking for a DL professional how do you find someone who wants to be on the DL and 2) guys in the middle age have stopped partying so are not out to be found. (Although a few will still be out)
You need to go to black gay parties and build your network slowly. Eventyally you get invited into their circles. Look for guys in their 30s who will likely know guys older than them
When I was young that's how I found them (although I was looking for guys my own age).
I think in London it's easy to find professional college educated black guys than not so don't see why it would be a struggle in the US. Like attracts like.
I only consider people with Master's degrees professional, categorically speaking. I know the exceptions but I'm sticking with it. If someone gets an honorary Master's, I'll accept that.
If the financial cost for obtaining a Master's degree in the early 2000s what it was (even adjusted for inflation) in 1965-70, I would have gladly gone for one and did well, but the United States is not great in that respect. Make America Greater Than It Has Ever Been.