True or False: A "Total Bottom" cares less for receiving a BJ than a top does.

  • rnch

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    Jul 16, 2016 2:21 PM GMT
    Your thoughts on this, please.
  • TombRaider

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    Jul 17, 2016 2:21 AM GMT
    True, for me
  • Mile

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    Jul 23, 2016 10:06 PM GMT
    TombRaider saidTrue, for me

    Are you a top (vers) or the bottom like in the description?

    Some total bottoms even don't allow to do a blowjob for them.
  • takashi

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    Jul 23, 2016 10:21 PM GMT
    Yes, true
    I do not care much for receiving a BJ.
    I rather would get rimmed, or better yet fingered!
    But of course, most of all would love to get penetrated.
    Love to be jacked off while being penetrated.
    When I cum its so intense, especially when I involuntarily
    squeeze the heck out of my top! Usually takes him over the edge.

    When there is something deep inside me while I am cumming,
    its like there is this thing, this thing obstructing my ejaculation.
    So my body is cumming and ejaculating, constricting my insides
    which means I am constricting or squeezing whatever is inside of me.
    Its the most intense feeling, I definitely feel every inch of my top then!
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    Jul 23, 2016 10:24 PM GMT
    rnch said
    Your thoughts on this, please.

    I have no idea how this would be quantified. The best anyone can give is limited anecdotal experiences.

    My single (very negative) experience was with a couple of guys who invited me to their apartment for a 3-way. When I undressed and the dominant guy saw my boner he exclaimed: "No way I'm taking that!"

    Well, 15 years ago I was a lot bigger before my prostate cancer. Not freakish porn star material, but shall we say much larger than average. So I said to him let me blow you instead. "No, I don't do blowjobs, I'm just a bottom. That's all I do."

    Which kinda insulted me, since I'm rather proud of my BJs. His buddy wouldn't do anything without the other guy being involved, so I just hadda leave, nothing more for us to do. A waste of my time, and I vaguely recall I drove back to the gay club where we'd been.

    I much prefer guys (or did when I was single & dating) who are a little more flexible in their sexual preferences. But I have no idea if my experience was typical or not.
  • rrazvy

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    Jul 24, 2016 7:33 PM GMT
    I don't enjoy receiving blowjobs. I don't really like a man touching my dick at all, to be honest. I'm very happy for my dick not to be touched at all in sex, either by me or by my Man.
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    Jul 25, 2016 1:17 AM GMT
    takashi saidYes, true
    I do not care much for receiving a BJ.
    I rather would get rimmed, or better yet fingered!
    But of course, most of all would love to get penetrated.
    Love to be jacked off while being penetrated.
    When I cum its so intense, especially when I involuntarily
    squeeze the heck out of my top! Usually takes him over the edge.

    When there is something deep inside me while I am cumming,
    its like there is this thing, this thing obstructing my ejaculation.
    So my body is cumming and ejaculating, constricting my insides
    which means I am constricting or squeezing whatever is inside of me.
    Its the most intense feeling, I definitely feel every inch of my top then!


    Like the quality of this response
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    Jul 25, 2016 1:41 AM GMT
    sweetpussyboy saidI don't enjoy receiving blowjobs. I don't really like a man touching my dick at all, to be honest. I'm very happy for my dick not to be touched at all in sex, either by me or by my Man.


    This is not unusual and I know a guy I still see when he is in town who is like this but this type of sexual behaviour lives up to the full stereotype of the bottom being in the "female role" as it means the bottoms penis is not involved.

    For me I'm not a huge fan and I like their to be a little more interaction with the other guys cock or it is almost as if it becomes sex with a woman. At least my friend who doesn't like his cock sucked always remains hard and does cum a lot when being fucked, at least with me he does anyway and with little to no touching of his cock.

    He is a Twink looking guy but only by the look. I would say sexually he is the pure definition of power bottom and out of bed very masculine
  • rrazvy

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    Jul 25, 2016 7:36 AM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    sweetpussyboy saidI don't enjoy receiving blowjobs. I don't really like a man touching my dick at all, to be honest. I'm very happy for my dick not to be touched at all in sex, either by me or by my Man.


    This is not unusual and I know a guy I still see when he is in town who is like this but this type of sexual behaviour lives up to the full stereotype of the bottom being in the "female role" as it means the bottoms penis is not involved.

    For me I'm not a huge fan and I like their to be a little more interaction with the other guys cock or it is almost as if it becomes sex with a woman. At least my friend who doesn't like his cock sucked always remains hard and does cum a lot when being fucked, at least with me he does anyway and with little to no touching of his cock.

    He is a Twink looking guy but only by the look. I would say sexually he is the pure definition of power bottom and out of bed very masculine


    Do you think that's a bad thing though? I am often hard during sex, but I still don't really feel the need to touch my dick. If I cum, then great.

    Power bottom means a more active bottom, then? I don't think I am a power bottom...
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    Jul 25, 2016 7:14 PM GMT
    True.

    I know of at least two bottoms who thought I had a desire to top them without a rising dramatic climax to endless love (no, I'm not interested in your homerun at this point in our acquaintance or friendship). They were not interested in anything else in the lovemaking department or just in the sex department.

    I'm grateful for this discouraging thread--might as well make Gay Bottom a major category: L, G, GB, B, T, Q.
    I also avoid tops who are not versatile and who do not want to buy a $70 Aneros to get their prostate milked.

    I guess, with this thread, I'm converted out of the gay side of my bisexuality. The pool of men for affection and lovemaking is too small with bottoms who are bottom me or northing and tops who do not date their way a homerun AND are brave enough to get milked.

    The frottage crowd can be too asexual for me.
  • Destinharbor

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    Jul 25, 2016 8:54 PM GMT
    That hasn't been my experience. I ran across a frot guy who didn't really want to be touched but only wanted to touch. Other than him, everyone I've encountered either liked getting blowjobs or it was just a blow and go so I never had the opportunity to find out. I like giving blowjobs and suppose I'd rather give than receive but I certainly would never turn one down though I like to be active rather than passive even when getting blown.. And that was true when I was a total bottom guy.
  • TombRaider

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    Jul 25, 2016 10:45 PM GMT
    Mile said
    TombRaider saidTrue, for me

    Are you a top (vers) or the bottom like in the description?

    Some total bottoms even don't allow to do a blowjob for them.


    I'm a bottom