Have you ever dated a Black Man?

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    Jul 29, 2016 6:25 AM GMT
    Have you ever dated a black man, and was it different from dating within your own race?
  • dreamcock

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    Jul 29, 2016 12:22 PM GMT
    I've dated a couple and really was no different-men are men.
  • ASHDOD

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    Jul 29, 2016 3:16 PM GMT
    almost no black men here in Israelicon_evil.gif
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    Jul 29, 2016 6:40 PM GMT
    Two, and no not different.
  • fitartistsf

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    Jul 29, 2016 10:18 PM GMT
    Yes... several times. And I prefer to find an in-shape/well-defined/well-muscled/intelligent Nubian man to finally settle down with... icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 30, 2016 5:29 AM GMT
    I don't subscribe to the concept of race because 1. It has you all wrongfully obsessed and 2. it was created by European/American slave owners to divide and conquer the poor, ensuring African culture and tradition in America didn't survive. Now we have this "black" sub culture in America that revolves around materialism to keep the community poor and dependent on "Whites".. But anyway. I dated an African/Irish American and he was gorgeous and charming but he screwed up by thinking I would move to Delaware with him.
  • Joshthegaymer

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    Jul 30, 2016 5:39 PM GMT
    I am myself multi-racial (one of those ethnicities being part black), but I personally identify with being white as that's the predominant community that I have the most exposure to. I have dated one guy who was black and Native American, but he screwed up the relationship by treating me poorly. I have many black guys trying to get together with me even though I'm working on myself before I get back into the dating world.
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    Jul 31, 2016 5:36 PM GMT
    I've wrestled quite a few of them. All were great guys.
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    Jul 31, 2016 11:39 PM GMT
    No, because most that approach me aren't looking to date, but are closeted looking for a someone to cheat on the wife or girlfriend with.
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    Aug 01, 2016 12:11 AM GMT
    BP201 saidI don't subscribe to the concept of race because 1. It has you all wrongfully obsessed and 2. it was created by European/American slave owners to divide and conquer the poor, ensuring African culture and tradition in America didn't survive. Now we have this "black" sub culture in America that revolves around materialism to keep the community poor and dependent on "Whites".. But anyway. I dated an African/Irish American and he was gorgeous and charming but he screwed up by thinking I would move to Delaware with him.


    You just gave me a hard on...
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    Aug 01, 2016 8:11 PM GMT
    dreamcock saidI've dated a couple and really was no different-men are men.


    +1

    Hot men are hot men from all different races.
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    Aug 01, 2016 8:16 PM GMT
    BP201 saidI don't subscribe to the concept of race because 1. It has you all wrongfully obsessed and 2. it was created by European/American slave owners to divide and conquer the poor, ensuring African culture and tradition in America didn't survive. Now we have this "black" sub culture in America that revolves around materialism to keep the community poor and dependent on "Whites".. But anyway. I dated an African/Irish American and he was gorgeous and charming but he screwed up by thinking I would move to Delaware with him.


    Very odd response.
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    Aug 01, 2016 8:17 PM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidNo, because most that approach me aren't looking to date, but are closeted looking for a someone to cheat on the wife or girlfriend with.


    Interesting.
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    Aug 01, 2016 8:19 PM GMT
    I've had mild sexual contact with my best friend who happens to be a black man such as me dry humping his ass in the park but it seemed too taboo for us to continue because we are close friends. I would date a light skin 5'5-5'8 green eyed black boy in my dreams
  • Eleven

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    Aug 02, 2016 7:06 PM GMT
    I had a senegalese lover and he was aubergine, he was an incredible lover and made me obsessed with guys with nice lips, his skin was like velvet and his boady was lean as fuck, the only thing that jiggled was that bubble butt, he used to spend so much time shaking it in the mirror and I just used to watch in awe lol.
  • mcbrion

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    Aug 07, 2016 12:53 AM GMT
    Yes, I've dated Black men, and no it wasn't different, given that I'm Black myself.

    Hmmm...I take that back. It's different in that when I date a Black man, I know there is no fetishizing me based on my skin color, so, when serious subjects eventually come up, it has a more natural flow to it than when I'm discussing issues that are hot buttons when dating White men, such as Black Lives Matter (aka Civil Rights, just in a different millennium), or racism within the gay community, the antipathy towards lesbians or transsexuals, gay Republicans or other subjects that elicit a more pronounced defensive reaction in some White guys. I've had some White guys feel as though they feel they're being quizzed on their beliefs on said subjects when it's a natural progression of how each of us sees the world and our involvement in it (or not, if the person is only about themselves). The exceptions to that would be if the other guy is a member of say, BWMT (now called Men of All Colors Together), or the Pacific Gay Alliance or any circle of guys or group that actually has had to think objectively (intellectually) about where they fit into the "mainstream" gay culture, and where they've studied the matter because of personal interest, and it's not simply started thinking about it when it suddenly became a controversy in the media (like BLM). Or when they began dating a guy of another ethnicity and realized that an Asian guy is not just a "submissive flower", but an actual person with independent thoughts and ideas. (That used to really bug the Philippino and other Asian guys who were part of the Alliance: they complained of being fetishized by dint of being Asian and what the expectations placed on them were by the (mainly White) guys they dated. Expectations they defied, since they were expected to be one-dimensional beings.)

    Otherwise, it's just two guys who like each other. And, some of my sweetest boyfriends have been White.
  • nkmoto

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    Aug 15, 2016 3:22 AM GMT
    Not dated but had sex with few.
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    Aug 15, 2016 5:23 AM GMT
    Yes. No.