Virginity

  • BambiBoy98

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    Jul 31, 2016 9:35 PM GMT
    So I have a simple question for experienced people on the forums.

    Should I wait until I have a partner to have my first time or just get it over with some random guy.
    Its been a question I've had for a while. Like I would feel a bit prude for waiting and I would feel violated if it wasn't someone who I cared about and vice versa.
    Any helpful advice?
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    Aug 01, 2016 1:39 AM GMT
    if ur topping or flipping just go bone whoever u want on grindr but use a condom

    But if you're just bottoming wait for someone special

    that's what I would say but that's jus my opinion
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    Aug 01, 2016 2:57 AM GMT
    I agree completely with both the above responses. I am getting sick of hearing from Baby Boomers who probably had too much exposure to vitriolic religion, that 'giving it up' for the 1st time doesn't mean anything. It does coz while it's likely you won't have contact longer term that first experience particularly bottoming 1st time shapes how a gay men views sex longer term. A bad experience can put you off from sex for a considerable time or set up negative expectations of what sex should be like.
  • BambiBoy98

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    Aug 01, 2016 5:58 AM GMT
    Thanks for the advice guys. I'll take it the advice and just wait for that special someone.icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 01, 2016 7:33 AM GMT
    I ve fucked guys that say they can only bottom for the right guy. I'm talking physically can't bottom without the emotional aspect of feeling love or a connection. It does not have to be Mr. Right . So I'd wait for someone you have feelings for. P.S. First time fantasy that getting fucked will feel great is not realityfor boy or girl.
  • BambiBoy98

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    Aug 01, 2016 4:27 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidI ve fucked guys that say they can only bottom for the right guy. I'm talking physically can't bottom without the emotional aspect of feeling love or a connection. It does not have to be Mr. Right . So I'd wait for someone you have feelings for. P.S. First time fantasy that getting fucked will feel great is not realityfor boy or girl.


    Haha. I figured as much.