I Left Him. Now I Want Him Back. What to Do?

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    Aug 21, 2016 3:34 PM GMT
    NYT: I just finished my junior year of college. For most of it, I hung out with this super nice guy. He is smart and funny, and the sex was good. We went to parties and had lots of fun. But then he asked me if I wanted to “get serious.” Honestly, I didn’t. I just wanted to keep having fun. So, at his request, we stopped hanging out in May, and I kept having fun, which turned out to be less fun without him. I miss him and would like to try “getting serious” now, whatever that means. Do you think it’s too late to go back to him? If not, how do I do it?

    http://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/24/fashion/social-qs.html?
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 21, 2016 4:08 PM GMT
    Too many unknowns to speculate. Depends on how it ended and what has happened to each since.
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    Aug 21, 2016 6:08 PM GMT
    No offense to you but I hope he is strong enough NOT to take you back. There was a reason why you made your choice so don't torture the guy by getting him back so you can dump him again
  • jackp0t

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    Aug 21, 2016 9:57 PM GMT
    If he has not been snatched up by someone else yet call him and show how serious you are icon_wink.gif
    It sounds like he was closing your door to open another
  • mcbrion

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    Aug 22, 2016 4:38 AM GMT
    This post is not the story of the person posting it. He is only reposting it. It was a story in the New York Times and involved a man and a woman.
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Aug 23, 2016 5:26 AM GMT
    zoltar saidNo offense to you but I hope he is strong enough NOT to take you back. There was a reason why you made your choice so don't torture the guy by getting him back so you can dump him again


    Good response!!
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    Aug 23, 2016 3:44 PM GMT
    mcbrion saidThis post is not the story of the person posting it. He is only reposting it. It was a story in the New York Times and involved a man and a woman.


    Why post someone else's story? Lol
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    Aug 23, 2016 5:35 PM GMT
    It's possible that the two could start anew, and it happens. But generally , people change over time, and Serious Guy may well have moved on to other relationships in the meantime, and may no longer be available to Noncommittal Guy.