I'm so over all the games.

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    Aug 21, 2016 6:53 PM GMT
    I'm so tired of the games guys play. Granted, I'm referring to sites like Grindr and scruff...it really annoys me when guys I meet once, or not at all...start asking for nude pics, yet they have no intention of meeting up. I had to really let a guy have it last night because in my response of what's holding him back from meeting again, he had the nerve to say, "do you feel we have unfinished business".

    I told him, YOU were the one who contacted me out the blue after all this time. I deleted his number and forgot about him, and then he comes back to town bringing his mushroom head ass back around to my inbox. Starts asking me for numerous nude pictures, but did not even so much as text or ask to meet up.

    I'm just like, That idiot. Really had some nerve. And another guy was doing the same thing last week. Asking me to send all these nude pics to me (and both guys were sending theirs), yet having no intention on meeting. I told him he was an asshole, and ended it there.

    I don't have time for damn near 30 year old men to be playing these childish games. What's in it for them? I told him, if you don't want to meet, don't ask me for nude pictures. Even if you did want to meet, still don't ask. It's like these guys have nothing better to do with their free time but be a voyeur and lead people on. I told him, if I did have unfinished business with him...I'd treat him like a business deal, and block and report his number for harassing me and wasting my time. But we met on the app With a mutual attraction.

    And I don't get it. We had so much in common. Same first name, same age, chemistry off the chain...and they still want to play games and don't even a reason why they play the games they do. Because when you ask them, they don't even have a reason. He said there's nothing really holding him back from meeting again. So then why the fuck hasn't he then? Just immature souls, who are probably damaged from their parent's fucked up divorce relationships and think that's how you're supposed to treat people.
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    Aug 21, 2016 7:14 PM GMT
    Maybe he just wanted to sext you. nude pictures aren't a big secret thing to everyone. for example my dick is on my profile and idc who sees it.

    What really sucks is when you plan on getting some ass off grindr n set up a time and take a shower get dressed nice and then they flake.

    I've had the happen to me 2 times. It made me rage. lolicon_lol.gif

    But in retrospect, I had no right to feel angry. It's a random hook up, there is a mutual lack of compassion/love (lol!) on both sides so they have no guilt in doing these things.

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    Aug 21, 2016 7:27 PM GMT
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    Aug 21, 2016 7:33 PM GMT
    bon_pan said


    one of my fav songs/rhiannon but I don't see y u posted it icon_eek.gif


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    Aug 21, 2016 7:36 PM GMT
    "Players only love you when they're playing."
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    Aug 21, 2016 7:37 PM GMT
    bon_pan said"Players only love you when they're playing."


    Ooo gotcha icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 21, 2016 7:38 PM GMT
    Am I the only one who thought this was going to be an "Olympics fatigue" thread?

    Anyway, I stopped reading after "this fucking mixed raced mother fucker".
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    Aug 21, 2016 7:48 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 saidAm I the only one who thought this was going to be an "Olympics fatigue" thread?

    Anyway, I stopped reading after "this fucking mixed raced mother fucker".


    I totally clicked ready to defend the Olympic Games. That's where my head is. Easier not to hook up in my opinion. Lol
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    Aug 22, 2016 12:47 AM GMT
    LOL. Fun listening to the OP make a fool of himself.
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    Aug 22, 2016 4:45 AM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 saidAm I the only one who thought this was going to be an "Olympics fatigue" thread?

    Anyway, I stopped reading after "this fucking mixed raced mother fucker".


    Lol, well I said that because since ive moved to where I am now...I've met back to back mixed race (straight black and white) mixed guys. They all have been inconsistent with what they say and what they actually do, play games ad infinitum, and all say they've been going thru a lot. It's like, why the fuck is everyone going thru so much? Everyone is going thru so much. But that shouldn't have to do with me and you.

    In each case, their parents have divorced or separated and live apart. Now, I can't say everyone is affected by their parents life choices, but it would probably mean these guys aren't used to what it's like having a stable family dynamic. So because of that, games is how they deal with meeting new people.
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    Aug 22, 2016 5:03 AM GMT
    Update your app profiles, make clear what you are looking for. THIS is why we still need the gay bar, club and occasional bathhouse icon_neutral.gif



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    Aug 22, 2016 5:32 AM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 saidAm I the only one who thought this was going to be an "Olympics fatigue" thread?

    Anyway, I stopped reading after "this fucking mixed raced mother fucker".


    Same here. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 22, 2016 2:35 PM GMT
    I've been a homo for 6 years now and I have found a good chuck of the guys on the apps are functional sociopaths. I was willing to assume Gay was kinda normal but I have found its just the tip of the iceberg and normal social behavior can not be expected. These guys are broken .
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    Aug 22, 2016 2:43 PM GMT
    the gold star gay men will be climbing the bath house stairs till they break a hip.

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    Aug 22, 2016 5:07 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidI've been a homo for 6 years now and I have found a good chuck of the guys on the apps are functional sociopaths. I was willing to assume Gay was kinda normal but I have found its just the tip of the iceberg and normal social behavior can not be expected. These guys are broken .


    Even the ones I met outside of the gay apps seem that way. I'm not saying every gay guy is fucked up.

    I've kinda stopped meeting guys off the apps lately. I had a friend who said, "I've never met a single person off Grindr" but I asked him, "but do you have a profile up?" He said yeah. Now granted, he has a boyfriend so hIm being on there is kinda sketchy to me. However, i would bet that he plays just as many games as the people he's come across. There's usually always someone on Grindr who can meet. The issue comes when trying to meet the next time, and the next time.

    And let me say one thing else: is it not annoying when you start chatting with someone on there, instead of talking about meeting they say, "oh going to my friends birthday party/meeting friends for drinks/etc. I didn't sign up for an app, to be contacted by guys just to hear about what they're going to be doing all night.

    This is why paid sex is often a faster way to get laid, and even meet people. For both parties. People (usually, but lots of games there too) get straight to the point. People don't call me and tell me about how they're going to a birthday party. And I don't talk to people who aren't Looking to meet.
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    Aug 22, 2016 5:29 PM GMT
    When you think its a gaymer post but its noticon_sad.gif
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    Aug 24, 2016 12:35 AM GMT
    "No nude pics of me - EVER" in your headline.

    Even people who don't read profiles see headlines, especially with that body you're rockin'.

    That'll cut out at least 80% of your responses.