Aug 22, 2016 9:10 PM GMT
I was dating this guy for close to two months and we hit it hard we became "official" fast and spent the night all the time and even went on two weekend trips to beach and all seemed great and fine then one night I looked at my Facebook and he removed all our photos, status of relationship and everything was gone and I had to text him going "What's going on?" and he gave me the whole "It's not you it's me" speech through text. I was surprised and disappointed and about over a month goes by and I am moving on doing fine but I hadn't closed the door completely, not that I messaged him or anything but I did think about it and of course wanted it to return, then the other night I assume he was drunk as he was texting me a bunch saying he made a huge mistake. Along with the fact that he came clean and said he dumped me for this guy from his past and that it didn't work out and he was a fool and etc etc etc and I tell him how can I trust him again? He said he wouldn't and etc etc...the night ends and the next day, him being sober, he doesn't seem as enthusiastic to pick up where we left off but wants to see me and start off as "friends" and build ourselves up, I eventually agree to meet up for brunch and we chat and he still is riding the "friends" and build up from there but he didn't seem really sorry or anything just saying "I'm not going to defend myself" and nothing romantic or sexual happens during our first meet since the break-up ... idk it seems wrong but I am to nice and willing to believe in people and that everyone makes mistakes and second chances can be needed but idk ... I am not convinced he knows what he wants from me and I don't really want to set myself up for him to dump me again just cause some guy looked at him or whatever ... idk....thoughts? Any other details needed?