Are you more friendlier, outgoing and spontaneous towards attractive guys then average-looking guys?

  • Brock700xChar...

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    Aug 24, 2016 1:22 AM GMT
    Be honest, when you see a sexy, cute guy do you become more friendlier, and outgoing towards him ,then towards average-looking guys?
  • tj85016

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    Aug 24, 2016 1:29 AM GMT
    no
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    Aug 24, 2016 1:32 AM GMT
    No guys I'm attracted to tend to be pricks. So if I'm attracted to them it's a red flag to avoid them icon_lol.gif

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    Aug 24, 2016 5:48 AM GMT
    average looking people are rude to good looking people and my best sexual experiences have been with not so great looking guys not the amazingly handsome ones because I'm more liable to manhandle the less attractive ones. Like this dude named Jose. I pretty much just own that name forever and whenever I hear it spoken I get a boner
  • dreamcock

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    Aug 24, 2016 12:45 PM GMT
    I try to be nice to everyone unless they give me a reason not to
  • andres_1987

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    Aug 24, 2016 1:07 PM GMT
    Yes. I can't deny it. I try to be nice to everyone, but with hot guys I'm friendlier.
  • AnonymKOIA

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    Aug 24, 2016 2:46 PM GMT
    I try to be outgoing and nice to guys who approach me normally
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 24, 2016 4:14 PM GMT
    Yeah, sure. It's natural. For everybody. Everyone who says otherwise is lying to you or themselves.
  • Eleven

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    Aug 24, 2016 8:32 PM GMT
    I give everyone the time of day.

    I can honestly say that I dont see anything special in stereotypically hot guys and dont give them special treatment.

  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 24, 2016 8:47 PM GMT
    I probably should modify my earlier answer. I still say sure, yes, but some guys others might not find attractive I do. I'm not at all agist though I still maintain youth is beauty. But older guys have a weightier sexiness about them and I'm fairly unbiased about race and ethnicity. But yep, the cute ones cause my blood to rush and I'm more animated. That's not to say I'm not equally friendly to others or value them less, it is just a natural human response to beauty.
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    Aug 24, 2016 10:49 PM GMT
    People do it unconsciously.

    You can leverage this to improve your gaydar, especially for very hot guys: if a super hot guy is exceedingly "friendly, outgoing and spontaneous" with you, he's either straight or you won the lottery. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 25, 2016 2:15 AM GMT
    AnOriginal saidNo guys I'm attracted to tend to be pricks. So if I'm attracted to them it's a red flag to avoid them icon_lol.gif



    HA! You have that problem too!
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    Aug 25, 2016 3:46 AM GMT
    I can't help it.
  • mcbrion

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    Aug 27, 2016 9:59 PM GMT
    I'm nice to guys who smile a lot and acknowledge others (not necessarily me, but how they treat others). Period.
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    Aug 30, 2016 6:20 PM GMT
    mcbrion said I'm nice to guys who smile a lot and acknowledge others (not necessarily me, but how they treat others). Period.


    Was about to say what's wrong with just being nice to everyone and acknowledging people. I like to make eye contact and smile to people. I'm told it makes people remember my face a lot more. The number of times people on the street have said "hello" and "how are you" is ridiculous considering I don't remember faces that well.

    One time I smiled at a girl my age at a coffee shop while I was working on some papers. She approached me after and said she was having a shitty day and was feeling unnoticed. She told me she felt thrilled when I made eye contact, held it, and smiled. She told me I made her day. Made me realize how easy it is to make someone smile.
  • mcbrion

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    Sep 04, 2016 12:12 PM GMT
    simplecollision said
    mcbrion said I'm nice to guys who smile a lot and acknowledge others (not necessarily me, but how they treat others). Period.


    Was about to say what's wrong with just being nice to everyone and acknowledging people. I like to make eye contact and smile to people. I'm told it makes people remember my face a lot more. The number of times people on the street have said "hello" and "how are you" is ridiculous considering I don't remember faces that well.

    One time I smiled at a girl my age at a coffee shop while I was working on some papers. She approached me after and said she was having a shitty day and was feeling unnoticed. She told me she felt thrilled when I made eye contact, held it, and smiled. She told me I made her day. Made me realize how easy it is to make someone smile.

    YES, you put it better than me, but that was precisely what I said in my response: guys I observe being nice to others (not just guys who are nice to me). But that was not the original poster's question: his question was, in essence, "hen you see a sexy, cute guy do you become more friendlier, and outgoing towards him ,then towards average-looking guys?"
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    Sep 04, 2016 1:53 PM GMT
    I'm friendlier, more outgoing and spontaneous to average-looking guys, who I think tend to have a unique beauty as opposed to the more generic beauty of traditionally attractive/traditionally sexy-cute-hot guys. I'm not in any way dissing the look of traditionally attractive/hot guys, who are for sure nice to admire in the general landscape; but average-looking guys--well, they always have some fascinating feature or general air, something all their own, which just makes me want to sweep them into my arms.
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    Sep 04, 2016 2:32 PM GMT
    Are You More Friendlier, Outgoing And Spontaneous Towards Attractive Guys Then Average-Looking Guys?

    Yes, when I was single and looking for dates. But let me shift the attractiveness scale down.

    Extremely attractive guys, the real hunks, I avoided. Because I assumed they'd be already taken, or wouldn't want something like me. Although I gotta say the few times I did approach some of these guys I found them receptive. Turns out everyone else felt the same way as me, and the extremely attractive ones were doing worse than the unattractive guys!

    Everyone was intimidated by them, afraid of getting rejected. Or they were getting hit on by ugly trolls, wasting their time and blocking better opportunities for them.

    I went for the average, ordinary-looking guys, with whom I thought I might have a shot. But avoided the unattractive trolls, who usually had personalities to match. So as I said, sorta shifting the scale down somewhat.
  • eM_Jay

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    Oct 05, 2016 10:06 PM GMT
    I'd like to say I'm equally friendly to everyone no matter what they look like, and I certainly make an effort to always be courteous and polite/nice to everyone. I'm just wired to believe that we all should be friendly towards one another.

    I'd be lying though if i said an extra bright smile and charm from an attractive guy doesn't make me friendlier than normal. Beautiful people just do that to me on occasion. I always catch myself doing it though and try reminding myself to be equal to everyone
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Oct 08, 2016 6:37 PM GMT
    Yup. Beautiful people are beautiful for a reason.

    Much of it may be nature. Yet, even a very good nature will show little for itself unless it is properly nurtured.

    I believe that each and everyone of us commands a specific talent that if used properly may play a very important role in that person's life. Good looks are a talent, too. Fine tune them, and you'll benefit. Why not?

    SC
  • PE_Mike

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    Oct 08, 2016 8:27 PM GMT
    No, I find pretty boys superficial, vain... who cares about their selfies?
    "hot" guys may be worth a wank if you happy to join the queue
    "ordinary" witha beautiful soul, balls and creativity. perfect.