Feeling down about sexual ageism

  • dilfforrent

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    Aug 25, 2016 3:48 AM GMT
    Some 25 year old on tinder just told me "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol" when I tried to chat him up. Just when I thought it was too good to be true, it was...

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  • Matthew56

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    Aug 25, 2016 8:24 AM GMT
    dilfforrent saidSome 25 year old on tinder just told me "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol" when I tried to chat him up. Just when I thought it was too good to be true, it was...

    sigh. icon_cry.gif


    Blah blah you are white think if you were Black and got rejected because you are black or have no confidence in approaching men because you know you are second down in the gay racial hierarchy . At least you are still top of the gay racial hierarchy and will still have men attracted to you
  • ANTiSociaLiNJ...

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    Aug 25, 2016 9:08 AM GMT
    Looks like it only took one response to turn yet another non-racially inspired thread into one all about race!


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  • Matthew56

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    Aug 25, 2016 12:49 PM GMT
    ANTiSociaLiNJUSTICeWarior saidLooks like it only took one response to turn yet another non-racially inspired thread into one all about race!


    631836


    Well it's true what has he got to complain about. He is white still fairly attractive and top of the racial hierarchy so will still get attention. When a white old man like that is moaning about his age. I cannot take him seriously
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    Aug 25, 2016 3:41 PM GMT
    At the moment i need a translator to help me figure the phrase used by the OP .......... "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol"
    What the bloody oath those words mean ?
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    Aug 25, 2016 3:46 PM GMT
    neffa saidAt the moment i need a translator to help me figure the phrase used by the OP .......... "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol"
    What the bloody oath those words mean ?


    On Tinder, you swipe right for yes and left for no. Sometimes you get distracted and swipe yes to someone you're not interested in. And the worst part is I have swiped no to some incredibly hot guys by accident before. So: Swipe left by accident is kind of like a typo. Get it? Typo/Swipo.
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    Aug 25, 2016 4:09 PM GMT
    Radd said
    neffa saidAt the moment i need a translator to help me figure the phrase used by the OP .......... "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol"
    What the bloody oath those words mean ?


    On Tinder, you swipe right for yes and left for no. Sometimes you get distracted and swipe yes to someone you're not interested in. And the worst part is I have swiped no to some incredibly hot guys by accident before. So: Swipe left by accident is kind of like a typo. Get it? Typo/Swipo.



    Thanks mate for helping me out !!
    Cheers
  • orome

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    Aug 25, 2016 5:11 PM GMT
    dilfforrent saidSome 25 year old on tinder just told me "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol" when I tried to chat him up. Just when I thought it was too good to be true, it was...

    sigh. icon_cry.gif


    I'll add a translation for Matthew above: that sucks. I know the feeling.

    My thoughts: people are people and sometimes that is bothersome, but overall you'll be OK. Get a bit of fresh and let it pass.
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    Aug 26, 2016 12:46 AM GMT
    DNA dictates that Sex is for the young!
    Yeah, we are all born that way.
  • tj85016

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    Aug 26, 2016 1:19 AM GMT
    lol, that's what happens when old dudes hit on 20 year olds online . . live with it
  • Apparition

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    Aug 26, 2016 3:39 AM GMT
    It is not something to really complain about, not a lot of 50 year old straight guys getting much from college girls either. Deal with it.
  • mcbrion

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    Aug 26, 2016 4:08 AM GMT
    dilfforrent saidSome 25 year old on tinder just told me "sorry, twas a swipo, mbad lol" when I tried to chat him up. Just when I thought it was too good to be true, it was...

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    Sorry that happened. It's to his credit that the was polite about it. But realize that what you want and "what" wants you are not always going to be a match, no matter how good-looking you are. For some guys, it's the mere idea that they would want to touch someone older that turns them off. It truly is not about you, and if you want to survive with few battle scars, you'll need to repeat that at times if this is your "target audience."
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    Aug 26, 2016 4:15 AM GMT
    I've never hit on a younger man!!


    I had no need to!! LOL
  • theonewhoknoc...

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    Aug 30, 2016 4:06 AM GMT
    lol i'd rather be ignored than get that reply. The former would mean "oh he's not THAT into me". The latter is "oh he's not into me at all" haha.

    Aren't you a bit old for Tinder? I never see anyone over 30 there.