Are there any guys who aren't all about sex and who believe in inner beauty as well as outer beauty?

  • Joshthegaymer

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    Aug 26, 2016 12:18 AM GMT
    I know I am probably going to get some snarky responses for asking a "stupid question", but I say "F it and ask the damn question."
  • mcbrion

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    Aug 26, 2016 4:12 AM GMT
    Of course. My criterion is that I have to be attracted to the person "enough." As long as that's there, I look for other traits, just as, if I discover someone is emotionally not an adult, or is mean, (not merely critical, but actually mean), any interest I had evaporates.
    I can't make myself desire someone ONLY because of their inner traits, but I can come to find someone more appealing after I've gotten a good glimpse of his "insides".

  • Aug 26, 2016 4:26 PM GMT
    Yes, I don't think I know any though! I could be wrong. I bet in 10 years we'll see more, diverse gay men since marriage is legal. For example, gay virgin Christians will be a thing.
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    Aug 26, 2016 9:43 PM GMT
    is ok with you if some people enjoy things that you don't enjoy?
  • Joshthegaymer

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    Aug 27, 2016 2:35 AM GMT
    jimib saidis ok with you if some people enjoy things that you don't enjoy?


    As long as it is not harmful or dangerous to anyone or any creature, I don't see a problem with it. I however am not into a lot of things that many people are into.
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    Aug 27, 2016 10:00 PM GMT
    Well I'd be lying if I said looks are completely irrelevant and anyone else who says so is also lying. With that said if someone has nothing to offer but looks than they probably aren't very interesting. I've met people who I thought were nice looking but grew to love them more because of their personality. It's definitely a balance. I've also responded to people on apps where I thought there is no way this 22 year old is going to have any substance and I've been pleasantly surprised. So go after people you are attracted to but don't be closed minded and try not to be judgemental.
  • ignaceqbc

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    Aug 29, 2016 1:29 AM GMT
    Usualy white people not into the inner side.
  • ANTiSociaLiNJ...

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    Aug 29, 2016 5:07 AM GMT
    UMayNeverKnow said^trorr


    LOL!!

  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 29, 2016 5:18 PM GMT
    Your problem is you can't handle the sex part. Of course inner and outer beauty matter but so does sex. Sexual attraction is what gets things started. Then you figure out the rest, whether you've acted on the sexual attraction or not. But you're so frightened you can't ever get to that next step.
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    Aug 29, 2016 5:32 PM GMT
    icon_biggrin.gifOP: Are There Any Guys Who Aren't All About Sex And Who Believe In Inner Beauty As Well As Outer Beauty?

    Yeah, it's called a straight friend who's a guy. Even then he might ask you for a BJ if he's drunk or horny icon_eek.gif Tell him only if he blows you first icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 30, 2016 1:00 AM GMT
    Joshthegaymer saidAre There Any Guys Who Aren't All About Sex And Who Believe In Inner Beauty As Well As Outer Beauty?


    You kind of answered your own question.

    Yes.

    Because everyone wants BOTH.

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    Aug 30, 2016 1:21 AM GMT
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  • TeenIdle

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    Aug 30, 2016 5:03 AM GMT
    No_Hookups_Steve saidYes, I don't think I know any though! I could be wrong. I bet in 10 years we'll see more, diverse gay men since marriage is legal. For example, gay virgin Christians will be a thing.


    Hahaha, well the gay virgin Christian is here now icon_lol.gif