Straight going gay

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    Aug 26, 2016 1:14 AM GMT
    So im 21, ive been straight and with women my whole life but im deciding to finally experiment with my secret desires. And the weird thing is i still like women and i like being dominant over women but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity and tips on making myself attractive to alpha tops
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:37 AM GMT
    Ur really fuckn got a great ass there m8
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:41 AM GMT
    Aha thanks
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:42 AM GMT
    just be your self, if you can at 21.
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:53 AM GMT
    Hyde2717 said
    So im 21, ive been straight and with women my whole life but im deciding to finally experiment with my secret desires. And the weird thing is i still like women and i like being dominant over women but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity and tips on making myself attractive to alpha tops

    You have some interesting ways of viewing relationships. Women are for dominating if you're a straight guy, Gay bottoms are submissives, and tops are alphas.

    Maybe before you go any further with these questions you should do a thorough examination of how you view basic interpersonal relationships. And research the way these things are handled in the 21st Century.
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    Aug 26, 2016 2:41 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Hyde2717 said
    So im 21, ive been straight and with women my whole life but im deciding to finally experiment with my secret desires. And the weird thing is i still like women and i like being dominant over women but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity and tips on making myself attractive to alpha tops

    You have some interesting ways of viewing relationships. Women are for dominating if you're a straight guy, Gay bottoms are submissives, and tops are alphas.

    Maybe before you go any further with these questions you should do a thorough examination of how you view basic interpersonal relationships. And research the way these things are handled in the 21st Century.


    Uhm, i didnt say women are for dominating, i said i like dominating them and being dominated by them. I didnt say all bottoms are submissive i said when im a bottom im submissive. And i didnt say all tops are alphas, i just said i like alhpa tops. Actually look at what someones saying before you get all exited and attack them moraly when they are talking about personal preferences.
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    Aug 26, 2016 2:48 AM GMT
    Hyde2717 said but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity


    Grindr?
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    Aug 26, 2016 2:49 AM GMT
    have you considered placing an ad?

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    Aug 26, 2016 3:00 AM GMT
    theantijock saidhave you considered placing an ad?

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    I like this idea
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    Aug 26, 2016 3:01 AM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    Hyde2717 said but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity


    Grindr?


    Yer tried, but seems to be either guys who arent willing to go slow or just creeps, in Australia anyway
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    Aug 26, 2016 4:05 AM GMT
    Hyde2717 said
    Uhm, i didnt say women are for dominating, i said i like dominating them and being dominated by them.

    "...i still like women and i like being dominant over women..."

    I didn't read anything in your OP about you being dominated by women. And the rest of your OP was as I portrayed it, including about sub bottoms and alpha tops.

    If that's not what you meant to say then you need to try again. I can only go by what you write.
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    Aug 26, 2016 8:21 AM GMT
    Again, im talking about my preferences. You have no point
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    Aug 26, 2016 10:14 AM GMT
    As a 21 YO virgin I'd recommend Australia's ACON 1st.

    http://knowtherisk.org.au/risk-calculator/
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    http://www.acon.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/What-is-Safe-Sex-Position-2014.pdf[/url]

    There's some very good and up to date info there. Condoms, PrEP, an Undetectable partner or Negative partner IF and only IF you can be sure they ARE. Talk about it and ask questions. Don't assume anything, If you don't know or can't be certain use a condom or get PrEP.
    Just because you are a Gay virgin doesn't mean you don't have an STI from a hetero encounter. Get tested and treated if necessary.

    I like A4A, you can filter for many things, like "no drugs" or build type and age. SCRUFF and apps like that don't say enough. Make sure your first time is a good one, you will remember it for the rest of your life! We all remember it, good or bad!

    (Sorry about the links, my tablet or RJ isn't compatible!)


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    Aug 26, 2016 10:30 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Hyde2717 said
    Uhm, i didnt say women are for dominating, i said i like dominating them and being dominated by them.

    "...i still like women and i like being dominant over women..."

    I didn't read anything in your OP about you being dominated by women. And the rest of your OP was as I portrayed it, including about sub bottoms and alpha tops.

    If that's not what you meant to say then you need to try again. I can only go by what you write.


    Jesus Art Deco, you aren't being PC, just pretending to be. I knew a female straight dominatrix. Some men like being passive. It has nothing to do with denigrating women. I've seen many Bi guys who are bottoms with Gay sex and Tops with women.......whatever floats your boat!
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:31 PM GMT
    Hyde2717 said... my whole life but im deciding to finally experiment with my secret desires ...
    people have boy friends and girl friends, not a big thingy. It is your life so no need for it to be secret and there is no need to put a flag out side who you are dating.

    Hyde2717 said... again, im talking about my preferences. You have no point ...
    we ARE talking about the OP's preferences here but how is the weather where you are?
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    Aug 26, 2016 1:55 PM GMT
    Hyde2717 saidAgain, im talking about my preferences. You have no point


    Congrats on turning queer.
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    Aug 26, 2016 2:20 PM GMT
    Don't they gift a toaster oven any more?
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    Aug 26, 2016 2:47 PM GMT
    I always find it interesting (and a bit schizo) when bi guys want to be dominant with women but become total bitch boys for alpha tops. A subconscious that clearly feels women are to be dominated while men should be revered seems like textbook misogyny.
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    Aug 26, 2016 6:03 PM GMT
    Hyde2717 saidSo im 21, ive been straight and with women my whole life but im deciding to finally experiment with my secret desires. And the weird thing is i still like women and i like being dominant over women but when it comes to guy im a total sub btm. So my question is how should i go about finding the right guy to take my virginity and tips on making myself attractive to alpha tops


    Ekho saidUr really fuckn got a great ass there m8


    Ekho has informed you what you need--and already possess--to "make yourself attractive to alpha tops".
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    Aug 26, 2016 6:59 PM GMT
    A hot young straight guy who calls himself horny twink is asking a group of big sweaty men to fuck him. If your as naive as you appear, follow your instincts.
    Human sexuality has always been fluid and complicated , mysterious and messy People do whatever it takes get s sex. Neil Armstrong walked on the moon in boxer shorts to get him some pussy. Mark Zuckererg created Facebook just to get a hand job


    But , the whole straight who puts for a manly gay is so 1950’s. Been there done that posted on Facebook. Our site is called“Real” Jock You ain’t never gonna get a real gay man by pretending to be straight.
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    Aug 27, 2016 12:32 AM GMT
    If/when you decide to get your hole pounded for the first time, I wouldn't go waving your virgin flag around as if it will help. Yes, there are probably a few guys that might be slightly turned on. But I'd MUCH rather have an experienced power bottom that isn't going to whine & complain the whole time.
  • nick773

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    Aug 27, 2016 1:06 AM GMT
    kinda in the same spot here wish I could find someone local for me! Anyone interested email me icon_smile.gif
  • roadbikeRob

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    Aug 27, 2016 3:51 PM GMT
    Dammit, you are a bisexual, why cant you just accept that true fact about yourselficon_question.gif
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    Aug 27, 2016 4:18 PM GMT
    trvlmscl saidIf/when you decide to get your hole pounded for the first time, I wouldn't go waving your virgin flag around as if it will help. Yes, there are probably a few guys that might be slightly turned on. But I'd MUCH rather have an experienced power bottom that isn't going to whine & complain the whole time.


    I disagree with you , he is being honest with the guy he is going to have fun with .. Their is a first time for everything !!
    You come out as a bit selfish , sex should be about pleasuring the other as much as pleasuring yourself ....
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 27, 2016 4:29 PM GMT
    I don't think it is as complicated as you think. Just look for a nice guy whose profile attracts you or at least doesn't scare you. List yourself as a bottom and say you have sub tendencies but little experience. Thee rest of the profile should talk about who you are as a person. Then leave it alone and just make friends with guys who contact you. But also take the lead in introducing yourself to guys who's profile sounds like a guy you can like. I'll probably get slammed for saying this but an older guy who's not a grindr guy is more likely to go slow for a while than a young guy. The first guy who entered me was older and a hell of a nice guy. He knew I was inexperienced though he didn't know it was my first time. But he also had the skill and knowledge to know how to get me to relax. Many, many years later, we're still friends. I've got no problem with meaningless sex but your first time or three, you need a guy who's thoughtful and patient. I know you fantasize about being ravished but trust me, these forums are littered with guys who started with an inconsiderate dick and have never recovered. You can also start the process with smallish dildos and lots of lube and simply getting to know the difference between the feeling of being entered and taking a shit. You have to learn to relax the sphincter, it is not something you can just start doing. And if you don't, the experience is pain, not pleasure. Though there will always be some pain at the start-- but don't fear that, it becomes part of the pleasure.