How do you deal with clingy/creepy people?

  • Joshthegaymer

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    Aug 28, 2016 4:48 AM GMT
    Howdy there gentlemen, I was just wondering: how do y'all personally deal with guys who you consider clingy or creepy? I personally seem to attract those types of guys and it pisses me off to no end.
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    Aug 28, 2016 4:53 AM GMT
    just cut em off not hard
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 28, 2016 5:44 AM GMT
    Depends on the situation ... give some examples.
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    Aug 28, 2016 7:36 AM GMT
    keep it simple & direct; politely show them the door?
  • ANTiSociaLiNJ...

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    Aug 28, 2016 8:35 AM GMT
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  • AnonymKOIA

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    Aug 28, 2016 10:42 AM GMT
    Yes give example,sometimes when you don't like someone you will just see creepy and hear clingy. Give example
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    Aug 28, 2016 2:02 PM GMT
    If you are dealing with many people you find creepy, maybe you are creep-bait.
  • Joshthegaymer

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    Aug 28, 2016 2:59 PM GMT
    What I mean in regards to my question is when a person meets another person who at first seems normal, but then things change. For example a creepy person saying or things like asking the guy that they like for nudes even after the first person in question says no, asking another gay guy if they're into kinky sex (like bondage), or even saying something like "I love you and you will be mine. If not, I'll kill myself." (I've seen that happen before on the internet.) As for the clingy person, I am referring to the people who try to manipulate/guilt trip people into dating them.
  • BambiBoy98

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    Aug 29, 2016 5:33 AM GMT
    As far as dealing with someone you find creepy. Just politely tell them they're making you uncomfortable. And as for clingy people, I've dealt with quite a few of them. What I've done was told them I wasn't interested if I legitimately wasn't interested.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 29, 2016 6:56 AM GMT
    ^^^^^
    Yup, hit the nail right on the head. 'Sorry you're not my type', usually works. Be prepared with a response of what your type is, and make sure your description is everything they're not.
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    Aug 29, 2016 6:05 PM GMT
    You avoid places where you know they will be and you stop having time to talk to them. The trick is to be polite the whole time and to be extremely self-disciplined about it. So if you're at the gym you never stop what you're doing to talk ... you just wave or smile and move on. Even the most clueless eventually get the hint. Directly "confronting" someone by saying "you're not my type" or something similar just invites a further connection (he might try to become your type) and will make you feel bad for hurting his feelings.
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    Aug 29, 2016 6:53 PM GMT
    I wonder what would happen if you were to turn the tables so to speak and be even more clingy than they are.
  • AnonymKOIA

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    Aug 30, 2016 5:02 PM GMT
    Well,if it happens online I find it funny. In real life you just be mean,I mean people believe in try until you get it. You give them emotionless look,don't cow when you meet them, face them straight and look through past them, And keep saying its a nooo.