Do taller guys ever go for shorter?

  • dude_8

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    Aug 28, 2016 3:54 PM GMT
    I'm 5'6 or 5'7, but at this height who cares. I've always been into taller. I'm a good looking dude who grew up in OC and in good shape. waist 30, 150 pounds, gym 5 days a week. I'm not "petite." instead surfer type.

    I've only been with taller (5'10+) and I love it. enjoy being the little spoon haha.. just wondering though, are guys who are 5'10 + only looking for others their size? nothing hotter than a 6 foot gym bro (to me). woof.
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    Aug 28, 2016 3:58 PM GMT
    tops will go after shorter guys Cus it makes em horny

    bottoms go after tall Cus they wanna be dominated

    my app filters are set to only show guys a couple inches shorter than I am.
  • dude_8

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    Aug 28, 2016 4:00 PM GMT
    Ekho saidtops will go after shorter guys Cus it makes em horny

    bottoms go after tall Cus they wanna be dominated

    my app filters are set to only show guys a couple inches shorter than I am.


    at this point i'm pretty much past the hookups. lets just say from 21-25 I had quite the wild four years icon_lol.gif and am looking for something more steady. so hoping for ltr there are some taller ones out there for me.
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    Aug 28, 2016 4:02 PM GMT
    I am 5'4". There have been so many funny and informative thread on short guys & tall guys on RJ. There is something for everyone!
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    Aug 28, 2016 4:03 PM GMT
    dude_8 said
    Ekho saidtops will go after shorter guys Cus it makes em horny

    bottoms go after tall Cus they wanna be dominated

    my app filters are set to only show guys a couple inches shorter than I am.


    at this point i'm pretty much past the hookups. lets just say from 21-25 I had quite the wild four years icon_lol.gif and am looking for something more steady. so hoping for ltr there are some taller ones out there for me.


    there's plenty of dudes available who don't wanna just have sex so I'm sure you will find a good match, personally i am not in the business of catching feels tho esp when it's so commonplace for gay relationships to be open so what's the point anyway icon_razz.gif
  • dude_8

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    Aug 28, 2016 4:06 PM GMT
    Ekho said
    dude_8 said
    Ekho saidtops will go after shorter guys Cus it makes em horny

    bottoms go after tall Cus they wanna be dominated

    my app filters are set to only show guys a couple inches shorter than I am.


    at this point i'm pretty much past the hookups. lets just say from 21-25 I had quite the wild four years icon_lol.gif and am looking for something more steady. so hoping for ltr there are some taller ones out there for me.


    there's plenty of dudes available who don't wanna just have sex but am not in the business of catching feels esp when it's so commonplace for gay relationships to be open so what's the point anyway icon_razz.gif


    idk once those feelings are caught it's pretty nice.... hard to go back to the same ol grindr game after that. for me at least. lol
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    Aug 28, 2016 4:34 PM GMT
    I believe average height guys, the ones on the top of the normal curve, are the ones more likely to be intolerant with height differences. Simply because they can get away with it.

    When you're 5'6, nearly everyone is taller than you. When you're 6'2, nearly everyone is shorter than you. In both cases seeing people with a height different than yours is an inescapable reality and it's possible you developed your beauty standards around that. Your pool is bound to be very small if you didn't.

    That being said, I noticed the guys who like me more are 5'8 or less or 6' or more. A notorious gap considering the guys in the middle are the most frequent (it's a normal curve after all...)
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    Aug 28, 2016 4:37 PM GMT
    UMayNeverKnow saidI'm 6'1" and my husband is 5'6". He loves being the "big" spoon. Lol. When sleeping he starts out as the big spoon and sometime in the middle of the night we swap an I big spoon him.


    I find it amazing when I date some short tops how they want to be the big spoon regardless of mechanical difficulties. So cute! icon_lol.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 28, 2016 4:42 PM GMT
    I'm only 6'0" but have seldom been with taller guys. Not out of preference, just worked out that way. I really don't see that it matters other than maybe the first kiss or embrace. I did find it kind of different to kiss up. But not bad, just different. Once that initial kiss occurred, though, it became about the guy, not the height. Visual differences or distinctions matter for a moment and can lead to some erotic fantasies but a warm body of any height soon overwhelms mental adventures.
  • bro4bro

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    Aug 28, 2016 5:51 PM GMT
    Do taller guys ever go for shorter guys?

    Never.

    Umm, except for everyone I've ever dated.

  • Aug 29, 2016 3:33 PM GMT
    dude_8 saidI'm 5'6 or 5'7, but at this height who cares. I've always been into taller. I'm a good looking dude who grew up in OC and in good shape. waist 30, 150 pounds, gym 5 days a week. I'm not "petite." instead surfer type.

    I've only been with taller (5'10+) and I love it. enjoy being the little spoon haha.. just wondering though, are guys who are 5'10 + only looking for others their size? nothing hotter than a 6 foot gym bro (to me). woof.


    I like shorter guys.. Im 6-3 155
  • BambiBoy98

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    Aug 29, 2016 3:42 PM GMT
    Being 5'6" I notice I tend to attract guys a bit taller than me. The tallest person I've been with was my ex. Who was 6'5". Cuddling was comfortable but surprise kisses were never a thing lol.
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    Aug 29, 2016 11:06 PM GMT
    I'm 6'2" and have rarely ever dated anyone taller than I am..........no reason why, really. It's just that most of the male population happens to be a bit shorter. Anytime I'm near a guy who is taller than I am, he seems like an Amazon.
  • Nakedman1969

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    Aug 30, 2016 12:15 AM GMT
    I'm5'8" and most of the guys I have been with have been my height.
  • ursa_minor

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    Aug 30, 2016 6:08 PM GMT
    Well i'm 5'2"

    So basically everyone I've dated was taller than I am
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    Aug 30, 2016 6:12 PM GMT
    bro4bro saidDo taller guys ever go for shorter guys?

    Never.

    Umm, except for everyone I've ever dated.


    I think any guy with height preferences would make an exception for you.
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    Aug 30, 2016 6:12 PM GMT
    My fiancé is 5'4 and I love it! I'm 5'10 and I just think his size makes me more attracted to him. I've always felt odd with guys my height. Cuddling was always an issue since it was slightly awkward for one of us. With my fiancé we can fit together like a puzzle in our sleep. We often wake up tangled in the other.
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    Aug 30, 2016 6:18 PM GMT
    dude_8 said just wondering though, are guys who are 5'10 + only looking for others their size?


    I don't think there is a rule for "most" guys. There are pairings of every type when it comes to height. Ultimately, who you love/date/hookup with is an individual experience, and depends on with whom there is mutual attraction at the moment of encounter. I can remember dating guys between 5'5" and 6'4." They were all good.
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Aug 30, 2016 6:30 PM GMT
    Taller guys always check me out?
    I am not complaining I like them Tall.
    long legs is my downfall or upfall
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    Aug 30, 2016 7:51 PM GMT
    5'-7" is the ideal size to fuck
    Doggy and throw around a bit





    dude_8 saidI'm 5'6 or 5'7, but at this height who cares. I've always been into taller. I'm a good looking dude who grew up in OC and in good shape. waist 30, 150 pounds, gym 5 days a week. I'm not "petite." instead surfer type.

    I've only been with taller (5'10+) and I love it. enjoy being the little spoon haha.. just wondering though, are guys who are 5'10 + only looking for others their size? nothing hotter than a 6 foot gym bro (to me). woof.
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Aug 30, 2016 8:15 PM GMT
    I probs fall in the middle. 5'10" with guys being equally taller and shortwr and equal. Ex was 5'9" my BF now is 5'11"

    I think the ideal height is a conceot the media birth, except for certain clothes looking better on tall guys, i dont really see the point :S
  • Wig4

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    Nov 09, 2016 2:32 PM GMT
    etch said
    dude_8 said
    Ekho saidtops will go after shorter guys Cus it makes em horny

    bottoms go after tall Cus they wanna be dominated

    my app filters are set to only show guys a couple inches shorter than I am.


    at this point i'm pretty much past the hookups. lets just say from 21-25 I had quite the wild four years icon_lol.gif and am looking for something more steady. so hoping for ltr there are some taller ones out there for me.


    there's plenty of dudes available who don't wanna just have sex so I'm sure you will find a good match, personally i am not in the business of catching feels tho esp when it's so commonplace for gay relationships to be open so what's the point anyway icon_razz.gif


    Indeed, for instance, I'm short as well (167 cm - 5"5 1/2) rather asexual, but attracted by the much bigger and twice or 3 times as muscular/powerfull compared to me. It's called cratolagnia/sthenolagnia, to get it caught in a complicated word :-) :-) .... I look forward to the other one who himself adores sweeeping his friend off his feet, carrying him in whatever imaginable ways, showing off his power as a sweet sensual gift every then and now. It's about equality in exchange of different qualities, between physically very un-equal people ! :-) Wouldn't it be boring, to be bodily clones !??? ...
  • rrazvy

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    Nov 09, 2016 6:26 PM GMT
    I am 5'11 and I only like taller men. I wish I was a bit shorter as it'd be easier, but there are still plenty of men taller than 5'11.
  • rvmj_05

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    Nov 13, 2016 6:03 AM GMT
    i dont even know anymore.. there have been and still smaller people and more musculine who kinda like me.. haha epic. at least they are handsome