Totally slutted it up yesterday =(

  • Leftswiper

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    Aug 30, 2016 5:08 AM GMT
    I've been friends with this guy in our friend circle for over a year. I've never been romantically attracted to him (he's only 20) but always wanted to get physical with him and his muscles. I found out last year that he was interested in me too, also only physically. Great! Except I'm a prude with a squeaky clean image to maintain "my next guy must be LTR", etc etc, and so was he. So nothing came of it. Eventually i changed my mind and we had the talk, agreeing to try stuff for the sake of YOLO. Before we got the chance, he came to a party at my place a few weeks ago and afterwards hooked up with a guy there whom I previously met on tinder and had promptly friendzoned. He expressed a lot of guilt and regret about it, but it still turned me off the prospect of any YOLOing, knowing he didn't pursue me nearly as quickly. But then yesterday we went out for drinks with a few friends (I was an hour late, more on that later), and the group of us ended up walking around very far from downtown way past the last bus home. The others lived within walking distance so they went home, but I crashed at his place. We talked for an hour about some other friend drama in our group, but when it was time for me to sleep on the sofa as planned, he wouldn't leave the sofa, and gave me that look...

    But that was only the second hookup of my evening - right before joining my friends for drinks, I was full of adrenaline after a bike ride (during which I crashed headlong into a tree while texting but somehow walked away with only a few scratches) and didn't want to waste this new lease on life. So I texted my hunky neighbor across the hall whom I initially found on grindr (whom I've visited and chatted up in person once before), to see if he wants to hang. Amazingly he's available and stopped by within minutes. We talked for an hour, and it seemed like he had friendzoned me until I recalled his earlier mention of being never the one to make the first move. So I brought the subject up again and asked him if I can make the first move right then and there. I really should've closed the blinds since we did it in the living room of a corner unit with floor to ceiling windows facing numerous buildings, but whatever. Before yesterday I didn't touch a guy for 9 months. If I had known what would happen the second part of the evening, I might not have done that, seriously my dick was already sore by the time I was doing it with my friend so I had to restrict some movements and was unable to tell him why lol
  • JackNNJ

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    Aug 30, 2016 5:15 AM GMT
    That's the wrong attitude. Suck as much dick as you can, whenever you can. It's only natural.
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    Aug 30, 2016 7:50 AM GMT
    Leftswiper saidBefore yesterday I didn't touch a guy for 9 months.

    All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy - or at least a very horny one that loses control.
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    Aug 30, 2016 9:03 AM GMT
    Absolutely shameful. Texting while riding your bike.
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    Aug 30, 2016 10:34 AM GMT
    No regrets, man...

    You're in your 20’s, insanely hot... You need to be trying as many guys on for fit as you can get... icon_lol.gif

    Remember... Every LTR starts with a date. Don't "not date" because you're looking for love. Open yourself up to posibilities, and love will sneak up on you.
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    Aug 30, 2016 2:45 PM GMT
    go figure it makes you feel your back in control of your environment. This is a necessary emotion that can get depleted.