Have you walked out in the middle of sex?

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    Feb 12, 2009 10:56 AM GMT

    All this V-Day talk got me remembering an incident back in 2004 when I was still a gaydar.com resident. I hooked up with this hot guy who just laid in his bed like a vegetable.
    First, I let his non-reciprocating kisses not bother me, as I was so horny and wanted the real penetrating deal. But when I notice that was doing all the work: sitting there and maneuvering (I was looking at him all througout the time). I thought in my head, "Okay you may be all delectable-looking and stuff but your bed skills are worse than an amateur newbie." So without a word, I just stood up and put my clothes back on and told him, "You are very bad in bed, in a bad way." All he ever said was, "C'mon, man!" He stood up and began kissing and touching me in my weak spots but I totally lost my sex drive. I let myself to the door. It felt good.
    If that took place now, I doubt if I'd walk out. I'd top the lazy bastard.icon_eek.gif
  • coolarmydude

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:04 PM GMT
    He was straight... icon_eek.gif ...looking for an easy lay.
  • Sayrnas

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    Yup...Don't try and do the dirty when I have allergies. That...that's just not ok. Me all sniffle'n and sneezing and blah...Come on!
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    Feb 12, 2009 3:10 PM GMT
    "Well, thank you very much but I need to be going. Got to get up early in the morning."
    "Wait, did you come."
    "Uh, ya. I came really hard."
    "That is funny, I didn't see you."

    Taking a cue from women who have slaved away for centuries under the yoke of inadequate sex, I just faked an orgasm, got dressed, and ran out the door. Blow jobs should not feel like you are cleaning out some moist piece of plumbing with your cock.
  • Sayrnas

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:13 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said"Well, thank you very much but I need to be going. Got to get up early in the morning."
    "Wait, did you come."
    "Uh, ya. I came really hard."
    "That is funny, I didn't see you."

    Taking a cue from women who have slaved away for centuries under the yoke of inadequate sex, I just faked an orgasm, got dressed, and ran out the door. Blow jobs should not feel like you are cleaning out some moist piece of plumbing with your cock.


    Amen!
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:17 PM GMT
    I have a lot of times

    When he refuses condom
    When he expect me to service him only
    When he cant get it up
    When he expect payment and it is not something we agree on
    When he start to be physically violence
    When he start to be disrepecfull like calling me a slut, whore and faggot
    When he start to act like some female diva and behaving like women
    When he start to be a religion freak and talking about sin (I once tell a guy to leave my house immediately after he giving me a religious talk about sin , "Hey why you follow me home and get into my bed in the first place")
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    Feb 12, 2009 3:32 PM GMT
    Kinda embarrassed to say this. But had sex with my friends brother and it was so bad i pretended to fall asleep so it would stop. Guess i should have just walked out but I felt bad at the time. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 12, 2009 3:33 PM GMT
    I was just off my v-plates and it was before I'd learnt to insist upon pics beforehand.

    Met this guy, stinky smoker, but I couldn't think of a way to politely leave, so when he started the moves, I did my best. I had heard a joke from Kathy Lette I think, about gay guys faking orgasms by spitting on the bottom's back. I thought I could manage that. Anyway, faked an orgasm, which got the guy off, but then he very solicitously took the condom, and while he was walking to the bin I could see him looking at it and cocking his head side-ways, obviously not seeing any cum. icon_redface.gif

    He got out his bong and I left. I think he had a good time.
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    Feb 12, 2009 3:41 PM GMT
    I've never walked out during sex - never had it go badly at all. I have, in my wild days done the *walk of shame* and gathered my clothes off the floor, searching for my wallet and keys and slipped out the door before sunrise a few times when I went home with a few guys I didn't know after nights of partying - but that was a long, long time ago!
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    Feb 12, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    First time having sex with this guy, in his house, and I'm doing him doggie style on his bed. Suddenly he starts YELLING that he loves me, wants me to become his partner and move in with him immediately, starts making plans to rent a truck for my stuff the next day, all the while I'm fucking him!

    His weirdness made me start going soft real quick, so I lied that I'd cum and pulled out, hiding my dry condom from his sight as I fled into the bathroom. When I came out he took his own turn in there, giving me a chance to very quickly throw my clothes on.

    He caught me in the living room as I had almost made it to the front door. I lied about remembering an important dinner engagement I had, and then literally ran out the door (so technically I didn't "walk" out), while he was still naked and unable to follow me outside. I leapt onto my motorcycle like it was a horse in one of those cowboy movies, and high-tailed it out of town. Never saw him again.
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    Feb 12, 2009 4:07 PM GMT
    Yes, I have. I have also had to deal with these guys that think it's okay to just lie there and do nothing like a blow-up doll. Sex with another person should be interactive and a team effort. I'm not into necrophilia.
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    Feb 12, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    i've stopped a guy in the middle and told him no. the look on his face was priceless. i mean, how bad can one person honestly be at giving head?
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    Feb 12, 2009 6:07 PM GMT
    I am terrible at it. You´d walk out on me

    I walked twice. In both cases the option was vomiting, and in both cases my instinct had been "don´t go".

    I don´t ignore my instinct now.

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    Feb 14, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
    I don't understand how a gay guy could be bad at giving head!?! I mean helloooo you have a dick, you know what feels good. Just stretch that jaw, open that throat, move that tongue around and gobble that cock, what's so hard about that?? One of my favorite things. icon_twisted.gif

    I've never walked out on anyone though, never had a guy bad enough in bed to do so.
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    Feb 14, 2009 5:54 PM GMT
    So many times. I just give the "TAP,TAP"

    "Finish Yourself Off! Im done"

    Thank god those years are over.
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    Feb 15, 2009 2:09 AM GMT
    I choke. I have a bad gag reflex.
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    Feb 15, 2009 2:50 AM GMT
    Lostboy saidI choke. I have a bad gag reflex.


    can i test that ?icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 15, 2009 3:15 AM GMT
    Just once and feel a teensy bit sheepish.

    In my twenties, my first boyfriend slept around with most of my friends at the time, ( I followed the monogamy philosophy due to my own ignorance). The relationship ended very badly because of the degrading manipulation of my character.

    I have since reconciled with this this man and for some reason ended up at his place one night. We were both ready for action and then I just suddenly thought,"Nah" got dressed and walked out.

    Never looked back.
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    Feb 15, 2009 3:58 AM GMT
    I fell asleep once...it was that bad...and i'm a top so....yeah...BAAAAAD!!!!!! I mean i didnt like FALL ASLEEP fall asleep, kinda dozed off for like 30 seconds. I'd describe that sexual experience as boring i guess.
  • Tiller66

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    Mar 08, 2009 3:04 PM GMT
    I have'nt walked out but I have made a couple leave before either of us getting off.
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    Mar 08, 2009 3:16 PM GMT
    I havent walked out during the middle of sex, but have left once meeting the guy at his door. Twice went to hook up w/ guys who I met online. 1st guy had several pics of him self which show him to be tall, muscle stud in his 30s, he actually was only short, fat and looked nothing like online profile. I just told him we didnt have a match and left. The other time a guy didnt have pics but said it was due to his high profile and that he was in sports and couldnt post his pic, turned out to be some guy who was over 300 pounds and in his 60s.

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    Mar 08, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    Once there was a guy in college who was a total homophobic ass so when he started showing signs it was more than just hatred we fooled around. Right before he came I pulled out, said I was needed somewhere more important, then left. He called me for weeks after that. It felt dang good to be able to do that.
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    Mar 08, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    This is not really on topic, but related to what sfinboston wrote. I don't really understand why guys bother lying about themselves or posting fake pictures. Certainly they must know that the person they meet is not going to appreciate that. You are what you are and honesty seems the best policy.
  • Teacherguy

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    Mar 08, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    sfinboston saidI havent walked out during the middle of sex, but have left once meeting the guy at his door. Twice went to hook up w/ guys who I met online. 1st guy had several pics of him self which show him to be tall, muscle stud in his 30s, he actually was only short, fat and looked nothing like online profile. I just told him we didnt have a match and left. The other time a guy didnt have pics but said it was due to his high profile and that he was in sports and couldnt post his pic, turned out to be some guy who was over 300 pounds and in his 60s.



    well maybe he was a sumo wrestler
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    Mar 08, 2009 6:56 PM GMT
    Once. About ten years ago I had a couple dates with this really cute guy. We went over the whole me being HIV+ thing. He was a doctor and he obviously had a more informed opinion than the average guy. We talked about sex well beforehand and he said he was little nervous about it. So I told him we would only do things he initiated.

    So in no time at all he had my face in his ass and a few minutes into it he got nervous, freaked and told me to stop because he hadn't read up the latest on salivary levels of HIV or something. I totally acknowledged his right to change his mind and tell me to stop, but the rejection hurt so against his protests I got dressed and walked my ass home. I didn't return his calls after that and thankfully he stopped calling after a few tries.