Destinharbor saidI dislike feminization of men in any form. In fact find it pretty revolting. Not trying to disparage guys who lean that way, just repeals me.
Is it THAT big of a deal in your life?
Some of us PREFER fem guys.
I acknowledged that it is there and I don't have a problem with it for guys who are or guys who like. But yeah. I intensely dislike it. Maybe it's because of all the decades I was closeted and knew I was attracted to men but surrounded by media that focused on fem guys. But I don't disrespect the people, just don't want to be involved with it and it seems hard to do if you adventure into gay nightlife. Makes me want to scream if I'm with my guy at some club (rare event- we live in a backwater) having a great time dancing and suddenly at midnight everything stops so some drag queen can be bitchy on stage. There is nothing I find attractive about that and I resent the implication that all gay men would or should. I like guy guys.
Ok if you wanted to avoid getting your head bitten off you could have just said that you arent sexually attracted to fem guys, you didn't have to go so far to call them revolting. Personally im not gonna police what you say as everyone has the right to be politically incorrect but just keep in mind you are on a gay community forum and it was the fem gays who paved the way so you closeted fags could spend time at gay clubs and watch shitty drag queens.
Sometimes I think about your kind of homosexual male, the repressed, closeted, tepid, broke back, tragic love life, I wonder what kind of sense of humour you guys have and how often you laugh..
Well, much as you'd like to take credit for gay liberation, I actually think those of us who held solid careers, funded anti-discrimination organizations like the ACLU and HRC, spoke up positively for gay rights in mixed company, hired clearly gay people, and yes, now have exited the closet did as much or more to further our cause than you who simply prefer to queen it up and be obnoxious. Why does being gay require bitchiness? It doesn't. Though you've cornered the market in that.
So yes, I was closeted so I could have a job unavailable to out gays and voted and gave money and went to plays and supported gay rights in any way I could so some like you could vamp your way to makeup heaven. And btw, I'm partnered, out, travel openly, speak openly, continue community involvement, and hate it when little bitchy fems think they've got it going on and get in my face.
Yes you made it real clear that you like to speak out, you also made it real clear that you're just as much a bitch as the rest of us so just be real and stop painting the kettle black otherwise we will be here all day.
How exciting a gay who defines himself by his vapid career, how original.
So you just throw your "money" around and suddenly you have the right to call out fems like youre better than them? Gay rights isnt about supporting the theatre or spending money, its actually about "standing up for gays and against bullies" you were running your opinion so I thought id reflect it back on you.
Yeh I totally take credit for all gay liberation, im constantly having to liberate fem gays in this day and age from the "str8 acting" punks who think its ok to shit on others, im a 6ft3 fijian who weighs 120kg, I wear makeup, I wear anything I can get my hands on because Im a 6ft3 120kg fijian and if someone gives me shit for doing whatever the fuck I want then, well no one gives me shit period, especially to my face because it is beat for the gods.
What im trying to say is that you can be alpha, masculine, macho etc without being a dickhead and putting others down, thats not what being a real man is about, I wouldnt expect someone who worked in an office most of their life to know.
Lol this is fun