I HATE GAY GUYS THAT DO THIS

  • LeeBee

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    Feb 12, 2009 1:01 PM GMT
    So im working and the two band guys come in for some drinks (X annd Y- X is well fit!) and so does another gay guy who i know who used to work there. When i finish i start drinking with them and we end up going back to the hotel room that i have to stay in so there is always someone on site.

    Anyhoo, X ends up passing out and Y falls asleep on the bed with my friend (girl) and the other gay guy, After a lil while X gets up and falls onto my legs, and i said something like "Get off knobend" but then i hear retching. So i spring up faster than a boner on viagra and drag him to the toilet attempting to capture all his sick. I then notice his trousers are down by his thighs and hes completely out of it. I then also notice that the gay guy is pretending to be asleep. I proceed to clean up and put myself between the two.

    Just as i'm going off to sleep i hear an almighty bang and Y has "fallen" off the bed and i laugh and tell him that im sad i missed it. He crawls over to lie down and i'm like "thats where i've just cleaned up sick" and he responds with "at this point i don't care" So im thinking FREE BED SPACE so i scramble on and start to drift off and i wake up to being groped by gay guy. I starting to reciprocate but then when i reached his balls twisted them and said "I can't believe what you'vew done tonight its people like you that give people a genuine reason to fear and be sickened by us; get out"

    It was confirmed the next day that he had molested two straight guys while they slept. GOD DAMN IT I HATE THINGS LIKE THIS!

    But X has told me he is bisexual so there is hope for me yet ;) So my advice is take pride in the fact that your straight friends are confortable around you and don't be a dickhead.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 12, 2009 1:08 PM GMT
    Sounds like some bad nightmare I might have had once. Are you sure you
    didn't dream it?
  • LeeBee

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    Feb 12, 2009 1:09 PM GMT
    errrrrr....no
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    Feb 12, 2009 1:38 PM GMT


    LeeBee your writing style made me laugh while being horrified then pissed off by the sequence of events. The gay men that do that kind of thing make life wretched for the rest, but you know this also happens with straight people too; guys doing this to girls when they're out cold.

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    Feb 12, 2009 2:06 PM GMT
    I'm glad you had the balls to do something about it.
  • coolarmydude

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:02 PM GMT
    That's sort of how I was sexually assaulted. I never reported it, but I was so damn petrified. I thought pretending to be asleep would make him go away, but it didn't. There was no alcohol involved on my part at least.
  • LeeBee

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:27 PM GMT
    Thx meninlove but its how i think and speak too so i can be a bit OTT at times =D

    I'm really sorry that things like this happen; and i appreciate that they can be brought upon by any gender, race, and sexuality i was only being relative. I was giving people an option to vent (not that it was my intention to do that AT all ;) relate and discuss.

    coolarmydude next time someone does that just tell them to stop they scamper away like golum. Im really sorry that something like that happened to you too.

    Take care all,
    Lee
  • coolarmydude

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    Feb 12, 2009 3:40 PM GMT
    That happened in 1993. I've grown up out of naivete since then. I know how to handle myself. But the other sticking point was that it was done by a Sergeant in my unit. I couldn't see a safe way of reporting a sexual assault to me while in the military.
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    Feb 12, 2009 8:26 PM GMT
    Gosh I've had parties, and had mates stay over, because they were to pissed to do anything. I always end up with one of em in my bed. I'm lucky. I have some wonderful mates, all str8. Even one who is homophobic. But as he tell me. I'm OK as I don't act all gay, and he knows he's safe with me.........icon_biggrin.gif

    Love those str8 guys.
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    Feb 12, 2009 8:40 PM GMT
    I'm confused by this story.....you said you started to RECIPROCATE when the gay guy started to grope you....maybe you didn't particularly want him to and that's why you said what you said to him but if you only groped him to get his attention to make point, then you weren't reciprocating. That only makes it sound like you wanted him to do what he did! So you're gay, right? So is this just an instance of someone you weren't interested in making an unwanted advance on you? Maybe I'm getting the wrong picture.
  • ROYCE13

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    Feb 12, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    confused by story as well, are you working, as you said, and took people to the hotel room where you work?? , unclear. Anyway, if it is work, you should not bring people to sleep, especially wasted types, it could backfire on you and get you fired. I think you should also raise your standards, being in bed with drunk barfing people is the last think one should settle for even if they are friends. go sleep on the couch, ?????????
  • LeeBee

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    Feb 13, 2009 8:58 PM GMT
    I meant reciprocate in the term of responding to his actions; only so i could get his undivided attention.

    I did not want him to do what he did but used it to my advantage; my actions are my own. Unfortunately i used the worng word to describe this...i am very sorry...

    "Anyhoo, X ends up passing out and Y falls asleep on the bed with my friend (girl) and the other gay guy, After a lil while X gets up and falls onto my legs, and i said something like "Get off knobend" but then i hear retching."

    If you read the story you would realise i was on the FLOOR for him to FALL on my legs; how else would someone do that on a bed. I would have said crawled. I didn't get fired but thanks for the concern.

    Like i said before i only posted this to let ppl know this thing does happen, for myself to vent, and so that other people could relate. Not lets all rip into the posters actions in an unwanted unneccassary situation.
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    Feb 13, 2009 9:20 PM GMT
    sadly, it's just the gay guys that inspire this "genuine reason to fear and be sickened"

    straight guys do it all the time and it's tolerated a heck of a lot more.

    but on the other hand, turn it around. if you're flirting with someone and shy and waiting for him to make a move, isn't him finally touching you the move you're waiting for? that "one time at bandcamp" story?

    when it's two people that end up both wanting it, it's super cool. when it's only one person ending up wanting it, it's super bad. but one person isn't going to know the outcome until he makes that move.

    some people revile this action, some people dream of the day it will finally happen to them. different perspectives reach different conclusions.
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    Feb 13, 2009 9:30 PM GMT
    My best friend (straight) of 25 years got "pissed" as you guys from overseas say, and when he got up to take a leak during the night, he stumbled into my room and lay on TOP of me while he was naked (He sleeps nude) What did I do? Of course I thought at first he was trying something...but even if he had been, no....So I crawled out from under him, woke him up and got under his arm and walked him to his bedroom door and pushed him towards his bed. We never spoke of it until a few days later. He was just totally drunk and dis oriented as my guest room in his house used to be the master bedroom. I woud have possiby ruined a great friendship if I had taken advantage of him!
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    Feb 13, 2009 10:47 PM GMT
    Geez......what a tangled web we weave............sounds like a silly mess.
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    Feb 13, 2009 10:50 PM GMT
    wow... people really read all that?
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    Feb 14, 2009 12:38 AM GMT
    LeeBee saidSo im working and the two band guys come in for some drinks (X annd Y- X is well fit!) and so does another gay guy who i know who used to work there. When i finish i start drinking with them and we end up going back to the hotel room that i have to stay in so there is always someone on site.

    Anyhoo, X ends up passing out and Y falls asleep on the bed with my friend (girl) and the other gay guy, After a lil while X gets up and falls onto my legs, and i said something like "Get off knobend" but then i hear retching. So i spring up faster than a boner on viagra and drag him to the toilet attempting to capture all his sick. I then notice his trousers are down by his thighs and hes completely out of it. I then also notice that the gay guy is pretending to be asleep. I proceed to clean up and put myself between the two.

    Just as i'm going off to sleep i hear an almighty bang and Y has "fallen" off the bed and i laugh and tell him that im sad i missed it. He crawls over to lie down and i'm like "thats where i've just cleaned up sick" and he responds with "at this point i don't care" So im thinking FREE BED SPACE so i scramble on and start to drift off and i wake up to being groped by gay guy. I starting to reciprocate but then when i reached his balls twisted them and said "I can't believe what you'vew done tonight its people like you that give people a genuine reason to fear and be sickened by us; get out"

    It was confirmed the next day that he had molested two straight guys while they slept. GOD DAMN IT I HATE THINGS LIKE THIS!

    But X has told me he is bisexual so there is hope for me yet ;) So my advice is take pride in the fact that your straight friends are confortable around you and don't be a dickhead.


    LeeBee saidI meant reciprocate in the term of responding to his actions; only so i could get his undivided attention.

    I did not want him to do what he did but used it to my advantage; my actions are my own. Unfortunately i used the worng word to describe this...i am very sorry...

    "Anyhoo, X ends up passing out and Y falls asleep on the bed with my friend (girl) and the other gay guy, After a lil while X gets up and falls onto my legs, and i said something like "Get off knobend" but then i hear retching."

    If you read the story you would realise i was on the FLOOR for him to FALL on my legs; how else would someone do that on a bed. I would have said crawled. I didn't get fired but thanks for the concern.

    Like i said before i only posted this to let ppl know this thing does happen, for myself to vent, and so that other people could relate. Not lets all rip into the posters actions in an unwanted unneccassary situation.


    Well, I found the story difficult to follow as you told it. For one thing, I had no idea where you work or why you were staying in a hotel. That may not seem to an important part of the story, but when you add that it wasn't clear where you were sleeping and where X was sleeping, the whole thing was confusing.

    After reading it several times, it made some sense to me, but I did have several questions as I went along. I shouldn't have to work that hard to follow a story, and reading comprehension is not generally a problem for me.

    Defending yourself, you write, "Like i said before i only posted this to let ppl know this thing does happen." But it took me several readings to really know what kind of thing happened. By the time I got to the central event, I felt so confused that you'd really lost me.

    It sounds like at least four of the people who've responded were confused.
  • LeeBee

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    Feb 14, 2009 12:30 PM GMT
    Geez; i'm so terribly sorry that you didn't understand what i was typing.

    Oh well, will not bother next time- that make sense?