Do bisexual men have "vagina envy"?

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    Sep 08, 2016 3:57 AM GMT
    Is this really a thing?

    I know I'm opening myself up to catch a lot of hate from the anti-bi movement, but this is something that's boggling my mind...

    I've had more than one conversation with other bisexual men on this site - or quite possibly the same guy on several sock accounts, you cant be too sure around here - where the focus has been an almost obsession over how different fucking an ass is versus how fucking a vagina is, in how it feels to the penis thats doing the fucking.

    It seems to always go the route that a vagina feels better because that's what it was designed for, and how he now feels inadequate that he, with his asshole alone, cannot compete with a vagina when it comes to pleasing a guy...

    Is this really a thing that so many bi guys obsess about? Or it just one guy's feelings, and i just keep finding his sock accounts?
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    Sep 08, 2016 4:33 AM GMT
    As a Bona Fide Homosexual, one was not born with the ability or choice to root a vagina, thus I'm not missing anything.

    As for bi hate here? I myself don't hate someone because they are simply bisexual. I as a Bona Fide Homosexual, simply see a diffrence. It's also why one no longer stands under the banner of gay, is because bisexuals who were seen as straight, make a lifestyle change, then want to be seen as gay. Thats hijacked us Bona Fide Homosexuals identity. But it's mostly bisexuals who get bent out of shape, with not being accepted as gay, or with the concept of us Bona Fide Homosexuals.
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    Sep 08, 2016 4:43 AM GMT
    It's merely David3k, Brock700, etc. He's a bit of a mess.
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    Sep 08, 2016 9:07 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidIt's merely David3k, Brock700, etc. He's a bit of a mess.


    Yeah... I wish RJ held mail longer than it does. I know i've had the same coversation with an account that predates those... You're right though, all probably socks of the same sockmaster... icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 08, 2016 4:35 PM GMT
    JonSpringon said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidIt's merely David3k, Brock700, etc. He's a bit of a mess.


    Yeah... I wish RJ held mail longer than it does. I know i've had the same coversation with an account that predates those... You're right though, all probably socks of the same sockmaster... icon_lol.gif


    I haven't noticed it from anyone but David3k=Brock700.
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    Sep 08, 2016 5:31 PM GMT
    I think this question is much more relevant to guys who date bisexual guys.
    I mean I don't think a guy would think about this if he was dating a gay guy, because he would be sure that his boyfriend wouldn't go anywhere near a vagina.
    I think I can guess how it feels for some gay guys when they're dating bisexual guys, but it's kinda interesting to see that some bisexual guys have this "problem". Because you would think since they're both bisexual, then it wouldn't matter much because they both would be on equal footing in this matter.
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    Sep 09, 2016 7:23 AM GMT
    Jon are you telling us something here? Do you secretly want to get a vagina or do others you spoke to want to get a vagina? Are you a hermaphrodite trapped in a man's body?
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    Sep 09, 2016 7:55 AM GMT
    My experience with rooting bi men, is that they've been bottoms.
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    Sep 09, 2016 11:10 AM GMT
    God_Said saidMy experience with rooting bi men, is that they've been bottoms.


    Yes the truth to "bi" men is this, or at least this is what I highly suspect to be the case.
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    Sep 09, 2016 1:24 PM GMT
    buddycat saidJon are you telling us something here? Do you secretly want to get a vagina or do others you spoke to want to get a vagina? Are you a hermaphrodite trapped in a man's body?

    Uhh... no. icon_lol.gif

    I'm just amazed how the conversation goes... like they (he) tries to back me in to a corner to confess that vagina would feel better as if it's the only way to justify his feelings of inadequacy... and now that I know it's only one guy on RJ with many many socks, I'm not as concerned anymore...
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    Sep 09, 2016 1:45 PM GMT
    God_Said saidMy experience with rooting bi men, is that they've been bottoms.

    All are bottoms and the wild truth is, they are all gay, just waiting for mr perfect.
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    Sep 09, 2016 6:13 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidI'm just amazed how the conversation goes... like they (he) tries to back me in to a corner to confess that vagina would feel better as if it's the only way to justify his feelings of inadequacy... and now that I know it's only one guy on RJ with many many socks, I'm not as concerned anymore...

    That's been my observation of how david3k typically behaves; he has some opinion about something and when people don't agree with him he goes through those "logic" machinations to try and convince you that he's right.

    And some (most?) of his opinions are a bit bizarre, like the ones that all Asians are bottoms and effeminate.
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    Sep 09, 2016 7:02 PM GMT
    JonSpringon said
    buddycat saidJon are you telling us something here? Do you secretly want to get a vagina or do others you spoke to want to get a vagina? Are you a hermaphrodite trapped in a man's body?

    Uhh... no. icon_lol.gif

    I'm just amazed how the conversation goes... like they (he) tries to back me in to a corner to confess that vagina would feel better as if it's the only way to justify his feelings of inadequacy... and now that I know it's only one guy on RJ with many many socks, I'm not as concerned anymore...


    I doubt he's a specific Uruguayan, of Italian ethnicity and who is primarily a Spanish speaker, but rather a Russian troll needing to relax. A long day's work trying to undermine U.S. elections one can't help but be curious about certain things, right?
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    Sep 09, 2016 7:41 PM GMT
    I already don't trust the impressions, opinions and statements of most people...let alone people of this website...but take it from me, if people are mistaking a Russian troll for David3k, and at their age, they might just be wrong about every other thing they say... as it's rather easy to discern David3k's personality from that of a more anonymous person, but who is likely to be a Russian troll, as he has implied being Russian in numerous statements already. I was even talking about Putin having foreknowledge of the Paris attacks, Russian involvement in ISIS and nuclear war being a real possibility because of Putin's actions, and he more or less stated that he endorsed everything that Putin does. You don't get better confirmation of being a Russian troll than that.
  • badbug

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    Sep 10, 2016 12:47 AM GMT

    I have literally never once thought of that as a bisexual man.

    As far as what feels better, a fleshlight (the good kind) feels better than anything. It feels a lot better than any pussy on earth because it was actually designed to feel good.
    Women's vaginas weren't designed to feel good, they just happen to feel good that's why people stick stuff in them. That's not design, that's just evolution.

  • bro4bro

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    Sep 10, 2016 1:11 AM GMT
    There are some men who are legitimately bi.

    Not one of them obsesses about whether they can please a man as well as a chick can.

    This is just a gay bottom boy pretending to be bi because he somehow thinks it's more socially acceptable (it ain't).

    It boils down to a simple fear of inadequacy that doesn't even make rational sense. He'd have to be with a bi top for it to even be an issue - because gay men don't give a fuck about vaginas. And in my experience, as many others above have said, most bi men (pretend or otherwise) prefer to bottom when they're with men.

    As for the "that's what it was designed for" argument, I've known a number of men - straight as well as gay - who prefer blow jobs to fucking. And yet, that's not what the mouth was "designed for". Linda Lovelace notwithstanding.

    News flash, buttercup... the vagina was not "designed for" giving a man pleasure. It evolved for the purpose of birthing babies.

    And, having been with a few women in my misspent youth, I'll take a nice tight manhole any day.

    Four thousand years of Greek history can't be wrong!
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    Sep 10, 2016 7:58 AM GMT
    I don't like vaginas at all. The come off gross to me. Although, more power to those who like to root themselves into a pussy. Period.

    Ultimately, both vagina and ass are just that sausage wallet.
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    Sep 10, 2016 4:24 PM GMT
    bro4bro saidThere are some men who are legitimately bi.

    Not one of them obsesses about whether they can please a man as well as a chick can.

    This is just a gay bottom boy pretending to be bi because he somehow thinks it's more socially acceptable (it ain't).

    It boils down to a simple fear of inadequacy that doesn't even make rational sense. He'd have to be with a bi top for it to even be an issue - because gay men don't give a fuck about vaginas. And in my experience, as many others above have said, most bi men (pretend or otherwise) prefer to bottom when they're with men.

    As for the "that's what it was designed for" argument, I've known a number of men - straight as well as gay - who prefer blow jobs to fucking. And yet, that's not what the mouth was "designed for". Linda Lovelace notwithstanding.

    News flash, buttercup... the vagina was not "designed for" giving a man pleasure. It evolved for the purpose of birthing babies.

    And, having been with a few women in my misspent youth, I'll take a nice tight manhole any day.

    Four thousand years of Greek history can't be wrong!


    I so disagree with you , i am bi because i am happy with both sexes when it comes to intimacy .. I have been out since i started dating boys and girls simultaneously , always been upfront with my bisexuality with everyone i have dated , my ex-wife of 22 years knew about it on our first date !!
    And i am still a anal virgin , at 60 yrs old , i never had anal sex ( giving or receiving ) ...
  • bro4bro

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    Sep 10, 2016 5:38 PM GMT
    I'm really not sure what it is you disagree with.

    I said some men are legitimately bi.

    I said in my experience, most bi men prefer to bottom.

    The only statement I made that could be considered a broad generalization is that legitimately bi men don't obsess over whether they can please a man as well as a woman can.

    Is this what you're claiming to be false?
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    Sep 10, 2016 5:48 PM GMT
    What's more disgusting, trolls or vaginas?
    This entire thread is ewwww.
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    Sep 10, 2016 8:28 PM GMT
    Hidden members.
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    Sep 10, 2016 9:25 PM GMT
    bro4bro saidHidden members.


    aw. how cute.

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    Sep 10, 2016 9:27 PM GMT
    badbug saidAs far as what feels better, a fleshlight (the good kind) feels better than anything. It feels a lot better than any pussy on earth because it was actually designed to feel good.

    Please explain by what you mean by "the good kind." The ones made from the pink material are a little less pliable than the sort of orangeish ones. The pink ones all have a generic opening (mouth, anus, vagina) while the orangeish ones are molded from some porn star's mouth, anus, vagina. (Never get the anus opening in the pink line; it's way too tight, unless you have a pencil dick.)

    And I think it's important to note that it's not "the" fleshlight or "the" fleshjack. There are many different ones and finding the right one(s) can be rather hit or miss.

    I've even branched out and bought some with the vagina opening from the fleshlight site. I was worried that I'd be grossed out but I wasn't; a hole is a hole apparently.
  • badbug

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    Sep 11, 2016 8:45 PM GMT
    The good kind are the fleshlight brand ones that aren't the standard "pink" basic model design.

    The "Stamina Training Unit" is the best one IMO, it's like a bunch of angels jerking and sucking you off. It might border on feeling too good if you aren't used to it and don't go slow at first.


    I am not sure about your masturbating habits, but it's possible if you jerk off too much and too tightly with your hand you can really numb yourself and require too much pressure that is actually damaging. If Fleshlights don't feel good enough to you, it's possible you've gone too hard for too long with your hand and need to give your penis time to get its sensitivity back.

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    badbug said The good kind are the fleshlight brand ones that aren't the standard "pink" basic model design. The "Stamina Training Unit" is the best one IMO, it's like a bunch of angels jerking and sucking you off. It might border on feeling too good if you aren't used to it and don't go slow at first. I am not sure about your masturbating habits, but it's possible if you jerk off too much and too tightly with your hand you can really numb yourself and require too much pressure that is actually damaging. If Fleshlights don't feel good enough to you, it's possible you've gone too hard for too long with your hand and need to give your penis time to get its sensitivity back.

    My problem is that I'm too sensitive. I'm a little on the thicker side but I'm not some megathick porn star so a big part of it seems to be that I'm just sensitive. (Which is sort of amusing given since I'm circumcised and the uncut guys claim that I'd be more sensitive if I were uncut; yikes, no thanks.)
    Some of the pink sleeves I like; the Original is nice for warming up, so to speak, and for cooling down between more the more highly textured sleeves. It has no bumps or texture and is completely smooth.
    When sleeves are too aggressively textured I end up not using them. That's when I get out the scissors, powder the sleeve well, and turn it inside out and start trimming away the bumps and ridges. I've done this several times and had reasonable success.