Did you lose your dignity while lost your virginity,....,,,,

  • craycraydoesd...

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    Sep 11, 2016 12:41 AM GMT
    The first and last time I had sex was 20 years ago, and I have to post it on RJ to relive the moment icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 11, 2016 3:57 PM GMT
    DannyLugo saidNOPE!!! BOTH R STILL INTACT:-)...hahaha!

    +1
    take the high road
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 11, 2016 4:16 PM GMT
    I'd say I gained dignity when I accepted my desires and acted on them, rejecting my fears. I rejected what others thought and said and chose my own path.
  • buddycat

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    Sep 11, 2016 4:47 PM GMT
    I don't think I lost my dignity and was treated with respect but I wanted more from this than the guy was willing to give so I probably should have waited to see what his intentions were before I went home with him. I am talking actual sex here and not just other things.
  • you_know_Its_...

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    Sep 11, 2016 6:42 PM GMT
    i'm pretty sure this was a parody thread of another thread which has since been deleted
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    Sep 11, 2016 9:02 PM GMT
    Dignity while having sex?

    We're all so dignified looking in that activity.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 11, 2016 10:38 PM GMT
    Puppenjunge saidDignity while having sex?

    We're all so dignified looking in that activity.

    My guy wants to make a sex tape. I told him "Sure. When I hit 13% body fat." I said that when I was 17% and now I'm 15% and starting to get nervous.
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    Sep 11, 2016 10:43 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    Puppenjunge saidDignity while having sex?

    We're all so dignified looking in that activity.

    My guy wants to make a sex tape. I told him "Sure. When I hit 13% body fat." I said that when I was 17% and now I'm 15% and starting to get nervous.


    If you look like your pics you'll be great. Ever check out some of the videos by some of the characters xtube.com? It can be pretty nasty. You'd definitely be in the spectrum of hotter guys in those homemade sex videos
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    Sep 11, 2016 10:51 PM GMT
    If it's REALLY great sex, I think you're supposed to lose your dignity?
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    Sep 11, 2016 11:30 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    Puppenjunge saidDignity while having sex?

    We're all so dignified looking in that activity.

    My guy wants to make a sex tape. I told him "Sure. When I hit 13% body fat." I said that when I was 17% and now I'm 15% and starting to get nervous.


    Please don't lol
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    Sep 12, 2016 12:46 AM GMT
    Sort of lost my dignity when I lost my Grindr virginity.

    I usually don't initiate but I sent a message to a hot muscular guy whose hair was starting to recede. He never replied - no surprise - but a few days later I couldn't help but follow up with the following message:

    "I've lost my pride but at least I still have my hairline."

  • Unnamed6

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    Sep 12, 2016 6:29 AM GMT
    craycraydoesdoes saidThe first and last time I had sex was 20 years ago, and I have to post it on RJ to relive the moment icon_lol.gif


    Let me say this again, I suspect a third of the people in this website to be perverts (which I have defined in another thread somewhere). Your getting of stimulation through vicarious means is a mark of a pervert. I suspect all advocates (but also some non-advocates) of open relationships on this website to be perverts as well. There is a reason why people can't be fully satiated by one person and have another person feel fully attracted to them, as the vibes the person puts forth, is the vibes of a pervert, and it would be very difficult to be attracted to a pervert or be a pervert and be attracted to someone correctly. I have the grace not to readily identify the perverts of this website, but will do so for you, as your readily anonymous, but as I said, any advocate of open relationships on this website are perverts (I might be able to respect an advocate of open relationships if spoken with some level of confidence, like the way some religious polygamists might speak on the matter, but if you're a joke of a person, i.e. a pervert, I won't take your advocacy of open relationships seriously).
  • Unnamed6

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    Sep 12, 2016 6:35 AM GMT
    If one wants to be successful in a gay relationship, one essentially needs to be rid of prissiness, narcissism, self-righteousness, perversion, etc, etc, traits of which constitutes something like 90% of the gay male population at the moment. Being such a way makes one an automatic failure for something like a gay relationship. And unfortunately it looks like only by the grace of someone like myself, can the gay males here be rid of such traits, but I'm lazy and chronically suffer from acetaldehyde poisoning, but a site wide exorcism to rid people here of these traits, and completely change them as people, may be something I would just have to do. It's either that or I just let the people here perish under the weight of their stupid personalities.

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  • Unnamed6

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    Sep 12, 2016 6:40 AM GMT
    The people in that locker room thread read as perverts too...
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    Sep 12, 2016 6:11 PM GMT
    I used to tell my ex boyfriend he lost his manhood every time after I fucked his ass which in turn made him wanna fuck me bAck lmao

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    Sep 12, 2016 6:56 PM GMT
    Virginity is a concept primarily in Abrahamic faiths and since gays have historically not been considered a part of Islam, Judaism, Christianity, Samaritanism, Gnosticism and Rastafari movement, there is nothing for gays to be ashamed of.

    I don't know why gays have to associate themselves to a larger straight culture and values that derives its values fundamentally from patriarchal religious sources.
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    Sep 12, 2016 8:18 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidSort of lost my dignity when I lost my Grindr virginity.

    I usually don't initiate but I sent a message to a hot muscular guy whose hair was starting to recede. He never replied - no surprise - but a few days later I couldn't help but follow up with the following message:

    "I've lost my pride but at least I still have my hairline."



    Oh, you bitch!
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    Sep 12, 2016 8:42 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    I'd say I gained dignity when I accepted my desires and acted on them, rejecting my fears. I rejected what others thought and said and chose my own path.

    +1 Unlimited

    I had no fears, but perhaps some lingering doubts about myself. Turns out I took to gay sex like the proverbial "duck to water".

    And I never thought about it in terms of GAINING dignity, I kinda already had enough to suit me. But rather that I felt no LOSS of dignity.

    Instead, I felt like I was finally finding the true me. My only regret being that I had been so stupid and lacking in self-awareness to have disregarded or misinterpreted the very obvious signs and urges for so long. At least I did no harm to gays. I practiced no homophobia like these closeted preachers and Republicans.

    Well, all water under the bridge. Important thing is I love living gay today. And my first gay sex, and everything afterwards, didn't diminish my dignity one smidgen. What it did increase was my CONFIDENCE, and happiness. I can't think of a better result than that. icon_biggrin.gif
  • SOONY

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    Sep 13, 2016 12:17 AM GMT
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    Depends to your community and country.....still there community not accepted gay rights,,,,,if knows it will be like a big shame even your family punch you......for me iam totally top we doing gay sexy very secret...i felt the bottoms I topped them lost dignity during others talking about them...for tops not same....fuck of my country