Yes, there is a higher level of pleasure you haven't found yet is called TANTRIC ORGASM

What should you do for being able reach that pleasure?

Of course you could think about the horniest things as seen in porno all over, but you know in your heart that this is a purely fantasy. If you want to practice something good, you must pass through the theory before, otherwise you will be charlatan.

Tantric sex requires you to know yourself better and to stick to your sexual role (If you still guessing that you better to enjoy both sides, you probably miss here something, there is a place to deepen)

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