The fact that he mechanically fucked a woman and was in between her legs pumping away, and climaxed with them is disgusting, and disturbing and beyond my ability to accept or tolerate the fact he used to have sex with a woman. We we together for 6 years, but is oast with women killed it. I could never be attracted to gay guy who has had sex with a woman before. he also had sex with a lot of guys in college, and had one-night stands, so I would of [sic] broke up the engagement anyways because he used to be a manwhore in the past. I have to 100% like your past, present, and future to be in a relationship with a guy, so there can't be anything in your past that i don't like.
OK, I've concluded you're a hopeless troll. And possibly not even gay yourself. Or else some troubled gay guy, who can't come to grips with who he is, and what that means.
Unlike you, I'd be more concerned about getting entangled with a man who had NOT been previously involved with other guys, and maybe women. An innocent babe-in-the-woods about whom I wasn't sure of his orientation, knowledge or expectations.
I've always WANTED a guy to have some notches on his gay belt. Your model is more like the old fashioned heterosexual straight male, who insists on taking an untouched virgin female into his wedding bed.
Well, guess what? Even the majority of American straight brides come to their wedding beds already "deflowered". Very likely by several guys, if not including the groom himself, guys who've had many premarital "conquests". Because somebody's gotta be doing it to account for all those "despoiled" women.
And so you're complaining that your BF wasn't chaste and pure? Are you? You should be grateful that he was experienced. And having sampled the field, he chose you over all those others. What a compliment!
Frankly I'd be honored, and flattered in that situation. You're either a fool, or playing games with us.
You may have thrown away a keeper, based on irrational & insupportable prejudice. Consider getting him back, if he's still available and will have you. But this time you treasure him, got it?