Wyndahoi saidIt's like when a white dude tops a black dude. Porn tells us that's not how it's supposed to be. So it feels slightly transgressive which adds a little extra spice.
Trust me, there are plenty of muscular black men who like getting topped by a slimmer white guy .
I think this is because, in the ancient times, when two men were fighting against each other, the loser became the slave of the other. So had to submit, which can up to the killing of the loser. But it could also become a sexual object for the winner, especially in men's societies, where there were no women. So that was the physical inferiority that allowed to designate those who compensate for this lack of not having trained enough to stay in the upper caste of real men. It was not a choice but an easement.
Rule accepted by all, as it was applied in reverse if different outcome of combat.
Certainly now that has changed. But there are still men who refuse to be botommed. Because this appearance of feminizing of the act.
But that's why imagine a puny guy embuggering a very muscular guy can be very exciting, because it would be the weakest who would become the most manly of the two! So, all, we could have a chance to ride a beautiful horse.
In the case of white and black, is more complex because it is the slavery which has created the idea that the white dominate and theblack suffer to be inferior because of color's skin.
With the abolition of slavery and the principle of equality between individuals, a blackman dominant a white man can be interpreted as a revenge for the the past, while the opposite would be a return to a past socially rejected as contrary to the current ethics where all men are equal and are born free of all constraints