Who to invest time in

  • Posted by a hidden member.
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    Sep 26, 2016 2:39 AM GMT
    So since I am a single dad my time I have to myself and being with friends is limited. I speak with a lot of people on different apps and I enjoy chatting. Some of them seem really nice and I would enjoy meeting some of them but very few go anywhere or turn into anything. Seems like nobody wants to plan if you aren't available right then and there it goes nowhere. A lot of the people who are available right then and there aren't the ones I really want to get to know. So am I trying to talk to too many people at once? I worry that if I talk to all these people im going to put people off. Some of it comes from insecurities on not having many friends. Suggestions?
  • metta

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    Sep 26, 2016 4:00 AM GMT
    Meet people with common interests. It is better to meet people in person than online:

    http://www.glbtnearme.org/index.html
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    Sep 26, 2016 4:08 PM GMT
    invest time in yourself. Otherwise set expectations low until you know EXACTLY what in a relationship you are looking for.
    this always be the case:
    zoltar said... I would enjoy meeting some of them but very few go anywhere or turn into anything...