Always been curious about cuddling

  • BruNC

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    Oct 11, 2016 3:43 AM GMT
    1.) What is it like to cuddle with a muscular guy? (really been wanting be cuddle buddies with one. icon_razz.gif)
    2.)Are there any cuddle addicts out there?
    3.) Any tips on how to find someone who would like to cuddle a lot?

    I know it prob sounds bad that I really would like a guy to cuddle with. Kinda like a fwb, but with cuddling.
  • ANTiSociaLiNJ...

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    Oct 11, 2016 4:01 AM GMT
    It doesn't sound bad at all. Cuddling is the best. icon_razz.gif
  • BruNC

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    Oct 11, 2016 4:59 AM GMT
    eh wish there was someone close >.
  • DannyLugo

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    Oct 11, 2016 12:06 PM GMT
    DATZ KOOL!!!icon_cool.gif...Craigslisticon_question.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Oct 11, 2016 12:19 PM GMT
    Congrats on the weight loss. Keep going! Wanting to cuddle is the most natural thing in the world. And one of the best. To be nestled up safe and secure with someone that makes you feel safe and loved. Human touch. You want a really muscular guy? Keep doing what you're doing by lifting and losing the extra, you'll get there. Great goal. great motivation. Feel good about yourself and your progress.
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    Oct 11, 2016 1:23 PM GMT
    bottoms always wanna cuddle i think the last dude I cuddled with wanted me to hold him on my porch late at night I was okay with it Cus he was sucking my Dick a lot
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    Oct 11, 2016 4:18 PM GMT
    Cuddlng and spooning is awsome... My hubs and I do it all the time... On the sofa watchng a movie... In bed... It's usually a warm up befoe some whammy-slammy sex... Or a cooldown after... But it's still amazing inimate.

    Years ago i datd a guy who wanted just the cuddle time without any sex... Said he hated sex and preferred to cuddle... We didn't have a date after that... icon_lol.gif
  • Eleven

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    Oct 11, 2016 4:31 PM GMT
    Find a guy who likes to have big nights on pills, I remember when I used to party hard and would have comedowns I really could have used a hug
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    Oct 11, 2016 5:05 PM GMT
    Cuddling is one of the most natural thing between 2 people of the same sex or not ..
    To me it feels more intimate than sex !!!
    My ex and i used to often cuddle , some time we were so much into it that both of us would reach orgasm without any dick handling , we would reach climax just the happiness and love that our mutual cuddling would bring ..
  • Tawrich

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    Oct 11, 2016 5:44 PM GMT
    I think the question was more about cuddling with a rly ripped guy. I would think that would be slightly less pleasant than a standard fit guy. Skin and bones is not rly a pleasant sensation.
  • Daijo

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    Oct 11, 2016 6:18 PM GMT
    1.) It's confortable and soft as opposed to hard (when muscles are at rest). Nothing thaaaat nice, imo.
    2.) My boyfriend!
    3.) Download de Cuddlr app on your smartphone icon_razz.gif
  • BruNC

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    Oct 11, 2016 6:35 PM GMT
    DannyLugo saidDATZ KOOL!!!icon_cool.gif...Craigslisticon_question.gif


    I used it before and they just wanted to have sex and leave.
  • BruNC

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    Oct 11, 2016 6:38 PM GMT
    Daijo said1.) It's confortable and soft as opposed to hard (when muscles are at rest). Nothing thaaaat nice, imo.
    2.) My boyfriend!
    3.) Download de Cuddlr app on your smartphone icon_razz.gif


    Awe that is cute with the boyfriend. icon_razz.gif and cuddlr app? Is it for IOS ?
  • BruNC

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    Oct 11, 2016 6:41 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidCuddlng and spooning is awsome... My hubs and I do it all the time... On the sofa watchng a movie... In bed... It's usually a warm up befoe some whammy-slammy sex... Or a cooldown after... But it's still amazing inimate.

    Years ago i datd a guy who wanted just the cuddle time without any sex... Said he hated sex and preferred to cuddle... We didn't have a date after that... icon_lol.gif


    Ya cuddles do end up with sex, but after that there is more cuddles...then more sex...I think my record was is six times is a short period of time...after that it was mainly cuddles...and some bjs. >.>
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    Oct 12, 2016 4:27 AM GMT
    neffa saidCuddling is one of the most natural thing between 2 people of the same sex or not ..
    To me it feels more intimate than sex !!!
    My ex and i used to often cuddle , some time we were so much into it that both of us would reach orgasm without any dick handling , we would reach climax just the happiness and love that our mutual cuddling would bring ..


    Wow, that's hot. I love it too. It happened to me once and it was the most awesome sensation ever. icon_biggrin.gif

    Ahhhh, I long to cuddle (and worship) some muscular body right now. icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 12, 2016 6:04 AM GMT
    BruNC said1.) What is it like to cuddle with a muscular guy? (really been wanting be cuddle buddies with one. icon_razz.gif)
    2.)Are there any cuddle addicts out there?
    3.) Any tips on how to find someone who would like to cuddle a lot?

    I know it prob sounds bad that I really would like a guy to cuddle with. Kinda like a fwb, but with cuddling.


    1) feels amazing
    2) yes
    3) you might find an interest group on Google. for example, there is MeetUp in Los Angeles. I haven't been to one, but I've heard of cuddle events.
  • Lanter

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    Oct 13, 2016 12:45 PM GMT
    I suppose I have to say I am kind of a "cuddle addict". Although I like the the term snuggle rather cuddle and I go for quality way more than quantity. I have never been that sexually driven, but to me, my snuggle time is a little more involved and arguably more sexualized than spooning. I'll spare you the details, but I have accumulated a few snuggle buddies that I greatly enjoy my time with. Its also a lot more intimate than just the physical aspect of touching bodies. There is a real closeness experienced through the conversations I have with each. I suppose you could call it "pillow talk". ha

    But anyway, yes, cuddling is a very enjoyable experience............when the connection is right. Believe me when I tell you, I "test drove" many potential applicants before finding the few I wanted to keep around.

    I say finding snuggle buddies is like buying shoes. You can pick a pair off the shelf that looks nice and has a size close to what your looking for printed on the box, but you will never know how they will truly feel until you slip them on your feet ;) ha
  • BruNC

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    Oct 15, 2016 5:02 AM GMT
    well hopefully i will get lucky enough to find someone. ^>^ so far it has been like pulling teeth. >.
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    Oct 15, 2016 6:03 PM GMT
    Cuddling is the best icon_biggrin.gif
  • Kalbi

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    Oct 15, 2016 7:54 PM GMT
    Cuddling is my favorite thing to do especially after sex. It's nice to be next to a hot muscular guy and enjoy each other's warmth and energy. Having a nice conversation while cuddling is also one of my favorite things to do.

    You'd be shocked. I think almost every guy I've hooked up with (using A4A or Grindr) loved to cuddle after. I highly recommend it. For me personally, I love cuddling next to a guy with body hair. It's nice to feel the body hair up and down when you're relaxing together icon_smile.gif
  • BruNC

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    Oct 16, 2016 3:28 AM GMT
    eh so far I have had crappy luck on grinder...might have to resort to paying someone just for a cuddle. :/
  • eM_Jay

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    Nov 02, 2016 12:03 PM GMT
    BruNC said1.) What is it like to cuddle with a muscular guy? (really been wanting be cuddle buddies with one. icon_razz.gif)
    2.)Are there any cuddle addicts out there?
    3.) Any tips on how to find someone who would like to cuddle a lot?

    I know it prob sounds bad that I really would like a guy to cuddle with. Kinda like a fwb, but with cuddling.


    1) I wouldn't think there's too much difference between cuddling with a muscular or average guy. Sure, it generally might feel better if you're into particularly 'bear-ish' guys i guess, there's way more body heat and muscles are surprisingly soft to relax on. But being the 'big spoon' could be a bit awkward if you like dominating a bit but are smaller... Just from my little experience anyway
    2) Hell yes! icon_biggrin.gif Who doesn't love being held or snuggling up to someone?! I'm a bone fide cuddle-addict. Rain or shine, cold or hot n sticky, I'm down to cuddle any time icon_lol.gif
    3) Craigslist and dating apps have already been suggested, but there's also another more innocent side of the internet if you just want a snuggling-partner. Look up sites like cuddlist.com, thesnugglebuddies.com or cuddlecomforts to name a few. You can find all kinds of professional or non-pro cuddlers out there who you can arrange sessions with based on what you're looking for, be it friendship, relaxation or even a bit of therapeutic holding/massage. I know it sounds a little clinical, but it's actually really great if you go for a pro who tailors the entire time specifically for what you need out of it while still maintaining some...boundries. If you want sexworkers tho, well that's a different boat altogether and I'm not qualified to speak there i guess

    Sidenote: A guy i know is a therapist who gives snuggle-sessions on his spare time (found out he's a pro after a while somehow) and he told me his counselling sessions have helped people with just about every need they could have, from just needing a friend in a closer capacity than most, to filling in the gap for when someone just feels a bit too lonely, even to helping recovering addicts get a better habit to substitute their addictions. Ofcourse he's also a masseuses so he really knows how to touch and treat people, but i got the point that cuddling can be really intimate and powerful, or really playful and relaxing too. For me it's always been really invasive/ penetrating (i'm letting myself be really vulnerable in that kinda situation), but i still think touch is great and definitely recommend getting as much contact as you want/need and can handle.

    Anyway, just my 2cents... icon_wink.gif
  • Karl

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    Nov 02, 2016 2:06 PM GMT
    I'd cuddle with anyone, regardless of their sex.
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    Nov 02, 2016 10:18 PM GMT
    BruNC saidwell hopefully i will get lucky enough to find someone. ^>^ so far it has been like pulling teeth. >.<


    Best done after sex.

    If you get into a relationship, make sure it is with a guy that likes some cuddling after sex.

    After years of marriage, you may find that you don't have sex every night, but there always cuddling, sex or not.
  • BruNC

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    Nov 06, 2016 2:01 AM GMT
    eM_Jay said
    BruNC said1.) What is it like to cuddle with a muscular guy? (really been wanting be cuddle buddies with one. icon_razz.gif)
    2.)Are there any cuddle addicts out there?
    3.) Any tips on how to find someone who would like to cuddle a lot?

    I know it prob sounds bad that I really would like a guy to cuddle with. Kinda like a fwb, but with cuddling.


    1) I wouldn't think there's too much difference between cuddling with a muscular or average guy. Sure, it generally might feel better if you're into particularly 'bear-ish' guys i guess, there's way more body heat and muscles are surprisingly soft to relax on. But being the 'big spoon' could be a bit awkward if you like dominating a bit but are smaller... Just from my little experience anyway
    2) Hell yes! icon_biggrin.gif Who doesn't love being held or snuggling up to someone?! I'm a bone fide cuddle-addict. Rain or shine, cold or hot n sticky, I'm down to cuddle any time icon_lol.gif
    3) Craigslist and dating apps have already been suggested, but there's also another more innocent side of the internet if you just want a snuggling-partner. Look up sites like cuddlist.com, thesnugglebuddies.com or cuddlecomforts to name a few. You can find all kinds of professional or non-pro cuddlers out there who you can arrange sessions with based on what you're looking for, be it friendship, relaxation or even a bit of therapeutic holding/massage. I know it sounds a little clinical, but it's actually really great if you go for a pro who tailors the entire time specifically for what you need out of it while still maintaining some...boundries. If you want sexworkers tho, well that's a different boat altogether and I'm not qualified to speak there i guess

    Sidenote: A guy i know is a therapist who gives snuggle-sessions on his spare time (found out he's a pro after a while somehow) and he told me his counselling sessions have helped people with just about every need they could have, from just needing a friend in a closer capacity than most, to filling in the gap for when someone just feels a bit too lonely, even to helping recovering addicts get a better habit to substitute their addictions. Ofcourse he's also a masseuses so he really knows how to touch and treat people, but i got the point that cuddling can be really intimate and powerful, or really playful and relaxing too. For me it's always been really invasive/ penetrating (i'm letting myself be really vulnerable in that kinda situation), but i still think touch is great and definitely recommend getting as much contact as you want/need and can handle.

    Anyway, just my 2cents... icon_wink.gif


    I will have to check out those sites. ^>^