BruNC said1.) What is it like to cuddle with a muscular guy? (really been wanting be cuddle buddies with one. )
2.)Are there any cuddle addicts out there?
3.) Any tips on how to find someone who would like to cuddle a lot?
I know it prob sounds bad that I really would like a guy to cuddle with. Kinda like a fwb, but with cuddling.
1) I wouldn't think there's too much difference between cuddling with a muscular or average guy. Sure, it generally might feel better if you're into particularly 'bear-ish' guys i guess, there's way more body heat and muscles are surprisingly soft to relax on. But being the 'big spoon' could be a bit awkward if you like dominating a bit but are smaller... Just from my little experience anyway
2) Hell yes!
Who doesn't love being held or snuggling up to someone?! I'm a bone fide cuddle-addict. Rain or shine, cold or hot n sticky, I'm down to cuddle any time
3) Craigslist and dating apps have already been suggested, but there's also another more innocent side of the internet if you just want a snuggling-partner. Look up sites like cuddlist.com, thesnugglebuddies.com or cuddlecomforts to name a few. You can find all kinds of professional or non-pro cuddlers out there who you can arrange sessions with based on what you're looking for, be it friendship, relaxation or even a bit of therapeutic holding/massage. I know it sounds a little clinical, but it's actually really great if you go for a pro who tailors the entire time specifically for what you need out of it while still maintaining some...boundries. If you want sexworkers tho, well that's a different boat altogether and I'm not qualified to speak there i guess
Sidenote: A guy i know is a therapist who gives snuggle-sessions on his spare time (found out he's a pro after a while somehow) and he told me his counselling sessions have helped people with just about every need they could have, from just needing a friend in a closer capacity than most, to filling in the gap for when someone just feels a bit too lonely, even to helping recovering addicts get a better habit to substitute their addictions. Ofcourse he's also a masseuses so he really knows how to touch and treat people, but i got the point that cuddling can be really intimate and powerful, or really playful and relaxing too. For me it's always been really invasive/ penetrating (i'm letting myself be really vulnerable in that kinda situation), but i still think touch is great and definitely recommend getting as much contact as you want/need and can handle.
Anyway, just my 2cents...