Gay friendly and cloth optional hotel

  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 15, 2009 10:42 AM GMT
    I been searching in the internet for gay friendly hotel and cloth optional hotel for a place to stay during my next vacation. I find a few website in Bali .Most of this hotel are very exclusive and probably suitable for guys who on vacation with their lover or boyfriend. I mean , what is more romantic than lying around naked with your love one, making love and swimming together in the nude under the full tropical moon , starry night surrounded by tropical flower and candlelight.

    However , since I am single and alone, I not really sure this is good idea. Those hotel are mostly on high end budget and not really a place that a backpacker like me usually stay in. It is really worth the extra money?
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    Feb 15, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
    LOL

    I can assure you, couples don't go there just to be together. It's more like a sex club than just clothing optional. Stick with backpacking if you're not into double penetration.
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    Feb 15, 2009 8:39 PM GMT
    My dear Zak, I go to gay clothes-optional resorts in Fort Lauderdale & Key West all the time, and despite what looknmd says, many couples stay monogamous. Yet some do not. Is this not what gay men do? I have gone to gay resorts as a single man, and as married, and I behave accordingly.

    As a backpacker, shall I assume you're looking at places in Malaysia only? I haven't been there, and so can't offer any advice. But in the US places I do know, I always thought it was money well spent. I either played around with other guys when single, or my partner & I were stimulated by the naked eye-candy.

    I simply love clothing-optional gay resorts. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 15, 2009 9:58 PM GMT
    I'm sorry, I shouldn't have generalized. My post above is just based on what I've seen at the resorts out here. I've never played, but have gone with friends (one worked for one and managed another) and usually end up chatting with the partner that just lets his partner play while he relaxes.
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 15, 2009 10:21 PM GMT
    Red Vespa,

    No, not in Malaysia. I am talking about other country like Bali , Indonesia , Thailand and probably Australia. No such thing like cloth optional gay fiendly hotel here.
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    Feb 16, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    zakariahzol saidRed Vespa,

    No, not in Malaysia. I am talking about other country like Bali , Indonesia , Thailand and probably Australia. No such thing like cloth optional gay fiendly hotel here.

    My dear Zak, I still can't help you. I haven't been to any of those countries. icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 16, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    I have friends in Malaysia and they vacation in Bali. Will see what I can find out for you. Tend to think it is a more conservative country though.
  • metta

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    Feb 16, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    There is a bunch of them in Palm Springs. Not my thing....but I have a few friends that like to go to them.....from their stories, they sound more like bathhouses that you can spend the night in.
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 16, 2009 11:57 AM GMT
    Prancer,

    I been to Bali two times already. You are right. The Island of Gods, is very conservative indeed. Hinduism is a way of life and people are very devoted to their religion. However in a tourist area like Kuta Beach (the smelly armpit of Bali) , you could find a vibrant sex industry, prostitution ,male gigolo, Indonesia boys offering old white women sexual service. Recently I find out , Bali indeed have a gay beach and a few hotel there are gay friendly and cloth optional. But this hotel are mostly in exclusive areas , hidden and secluded. They are mostly run and probably own by expatriate from Western country and cater for rich tourist only. The rate are really high and just like my topic "it is really worth it" .

    Just to share a fact, for some unknown reason gay men have attraction to Bali island. From Walter Spies, Collin McPhee into latter days famous gay painter and writer have make this island home.
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    Mar 21, 2014 2:57 AM GMT
    In Rotorua, New Zealand there is Guysers Gaystay - a clothing optional B&B for men. Google it if you are heading down under.