I was utterly appalled!!

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    Feb 16, 2009 5:01 PM GMT
    I was online last night and a guy messaged me asking if he could "fuck me bare" cause i was hot. he was also openly positive

    i told him hell no and that he shouldn't been willingly infecting ppl with a deadly disease

    then he says that "some ppl dont care, you do so we wont do it"

    i just couldn't believe someone would have the audacity to be so blindly stupid, and the ppl that would let him need help in my opinion.

    but yeah it made me so upset last night i was furious.

    btw i would not bb if he said he was negative anyway lol, but yeah he pissed me off, it made me want to get into like hiv awareness groups to make ppl protect themselves

    k i vented lol off to work

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    Feb 16, 2009 5:10 PM GMT
    I'm confused, you bare back, but are pissed that a positive guy wants to do it too? icon_eek.gif

    LOL
    wow
    really?
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    Feb 16, 2009 5:12 PM GMT
    BodyWork4 saidI'm confused, you bare back, but are pissed that a positive guy wants to do it too? icon_eek.gif

    LOL
    wow
    really?

    I suspect he made a typo and intended to say "btw i would not bb if he said he was negative anyway lol" That would make sense with the tone of the rest of his posting.
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    Feb 16, 2009 5:14 PM GMT
    I think some who's concern over health became mundane through dozens (or hundreds) of hookups would apparently show the same lack of concern and respect they show themselves to other people.

    Don't be shocked, just understand there are people out there that aren't going to show you the heathful respect they don't show their own body.
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    Feb 16, 2009 5:16 PM GMT
    Caslon9000 said
    BodyWork4 saidI'm confused, you bare back, but are pissed that a positive guy wants to do it too? icon_eek.gif

    LOL
    wow
    really?

    I suspect he made a typo and intended to say "btw i would not bb if he said he was negative anyway lol" That would make sense with the tone of the rest of his posting.

    yes i t was a type :X sry im still kinda like WTF?!?

    i do not BB, never have
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    Feb 16, 2009 5:20 PM GMT
    ok, good man


    good point icon_wink.gif



    and sadly - I've had plenty offer to and ask to and want to fuck bare.
    Quite often... Scary stuff.
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    Feb 16, 2009 5:26 PM GMT
    BodyWork4 saidok, good man


    good point icon_wink.gif



    and sadly - I've had plenty offer to and ask to and want to fuck bare.
    Quite often... Scary stuff.


    haha yeah, thanks for pointing that out i wasn't putting up a very good argument was i lol >_<

    i have been making a lot of typing errors cause im in a hotel and my internet is all weird it's really annoying. so i have been using my iPhone since last night haha

    it catches most errors but not all icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 16, 2009 6:53 PM GMT
    I'd tricked with this guy a few times, and we always used condoms (both of us versatile and taking turns), and he very strongly assured me that he never, ever had unsafe sex, and was totally clean.

    Then one morning we were taking a shower together, and suddenly he bent me over and started to enter me bareback. In lust myself, I let him in a couple of inches, until finally an inner voice screamed at me: "What the HELL are you doing???"

    I pulled away from him, and we finished our sex in his bed, properly protected. He later insisted that I was his sole exception, that because I was so hot in the shower he couldn't help himself, blah, blah, blah. And I thought to myself, if he would try to bareback me, and I know I'm in fact not that hot at all, then how much can I trust his word that he's never barebacked with anyone else?

    I decided I couldn't trust him very much at all anymore. And we never had sex again.

    I'm negative and been 100% STD-free all my life, partly because of dumb luck I'll admit, and partly because I do try to be careful. Common sense & self-control are the key, and we've all gotta exercise some good judgment in doing the right thing, no matter how hard our dick is throbbing.