Mar 19, 2017 4:12 PM GMT
I have been with my partner for 3 1/2 years. It was a long distance relationship for the first 2 years. During our first year, he cheated on me twice. After the second time he admitted he had a sex addiction and promised to go to SLAA and promised to never do it again. He had a habit of posting on Craigslist and I caught him that way. Our 2nd year was about rebuilding trust and continue to make frequent trips back and forth. In February of 2016, I moved 350 miles to be with him. We had our ups & downs like most couples but nothing major. Last week I saw Grindr on his phone. I confronted him and he said he was bored and just talking to make friends. He swore that he hadn't cheated again. With his past, I couldn't accept that he wasn't on there looking for more than friendship. We all know what Grindr is. I couldn't get past it and he has moved out. I told him it was over. Now I'm wondering if I should have given him another chance and accepted what he said about just chatting since I do love him and now sitting here alone missing him. Or should I accept that I'm never going to be able to trust him and will always be wondering about what he's doing?