Guy at the gym


  • Mar 22, 2017 10:31 AM GMT
    There's this guy at the gym I think is really hot but can't tell if he's gay. He has an equality sticker on his car and yes I know just because you support equal rights that doesn't mean your gay but is that enough to go on to approach him?
  • calime61

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    Mar 22, 2017 4:53 PM GMT
    Just a suggestion
    Try to use that caracterestic "the equality sticker on his car" and change it into a advantage for you by saying that you noticed that sticker and that it touches you see people supporting equality for example
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    Mar 22, 2017 6:06 PM GMT
    Aside from your story...The fact that you know what is car looks like freaks me out a little...I had this one guy follow me to my car after the gym once to have a chat.
    That was creepy AF...Not sure how you can start a convo with him inside the gym...But do not follow him outside as he's leaving.
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    Mar 22, 2017 9:06 PM GMT
    FollowingRivers saidAside from your story...The fact that you know what is car looks like freaks me out a little...I had this one guy follow me to my car after the gym once to have a chat.
    That was creepy AF...Not sure how you can start a convo with him inside the gym...But do not follow him outside as he's leaving.


    When did he say he followed him to his car? He could have just walked past or If they both drive to the same gym they probably use the same car park.
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    Mar 22, 2017 9:45 PM GMT
    Make it clear that you are gay if it isn't already and see how he reacts.
  • MadridGuy93

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    Mar 23, 2017 9:39 AM GMT
    FollowingRivers saidAside from your story...The fact that you know what is car looks like freaks me out a little...I had this one guy follow me to my car after the gym once to have a chat.
    That was creepy AF...Not sure how you can start a convo with him inside the gym...But do not follow him outside as he's leaving.


    People like you, who always have the word "weird" on mind get nothing.

    @bmorethanu Man it up and ask him!
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    Mar 23, 2017 2:52 PM GMT
    Also be mindful some people support equality only as long as they don't have to face it. But think of creative ways to know if he is gay or at least bi? Don't mention the sticker, it might make him feel that you are observing him too much. Say something like, you are handsome or I would like my partner to look as great as you.
  • mybud

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    May 03, 2018 10:47 AM GMT
    kaepernick saidAside from your story...The fact that you know what is car looks like freaks me out a little...I had this one guy follow me to my car after the gym once to have a chat.
    That was creepy AF...Not sure how you can start a convo with him inside the gym...But do not follow him outside as he's leaving.
    I think you need to relax. How can one meet another person without finding an opportunity to do so? I'd like a gay wingy who went to the same gym as me.
  • roadbikeRob

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    May 03, 2018 1:08 PM GMT
    kaepernick saidAside from your story...The fact that you know what is car looks like freaks me out a little...I had this one guy follow me to my car after the gym once to have a chat.
    That was creepy AF...Not sure how you can start a convo with him inside the gym...But do not follow him outside as he's leaving.
    Absolutely nothing creepy about it. A person following another person to a same area or place is not creepy because they could have the same destination. You are too paranoid!
  • jeep334

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    May 03, 2018 3:59 PM GMT
    leanandclean saidMake it clear that you are gay if it isn't already and see how he reacts.



    This may be difficult but actually the best answer.
  • KTChang

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    May 04, 2018 1:58 AM GMT
    Wear a SeanCody tank top and see if he noticed icon_lol.gif