What does it mean to be homosexual?

  • johnnyqhomo7

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    Apr 20, 2017 10:30 PM GMT
    hi. What does it really mean to be homosexual? Some people say that it just means you are attracted to other males,but i wonder is there more. I mean, sexuality is much more vibrant than just attraction right? Im 37, but have never been with another male before. I think I am scared of getting aids. Im sorta new to the gay world and wonder what it all means. I am not into drag queens and effeminate guys,but that is all i see here in nj. if someone is a homosexual male, wouldnt that make him more masculine as being he has no use for women?
  • spider

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    Apr 21, 2017 12:48 PM GMT
    Homosexuality means your sexually attracted to men exclusivly. Bi means you like both men and women. Being a gay male myself, came out at 13 and never even kissed a woman, Being gay does not make u less of a man. Gays come in all sorts of shapes, sizes and types just like hetro sexuals
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    Apr 21, 2017 1:44 PM GMT
    johnnyqhomo7
    What does it really mean to be homosexual?
    Some people say that it just means you are attracted to other males, but I wonder is there more: sexuality is much more than just attraction right?

    Stephenoabc
    You can make your sexuality more than sexual attraction.
    There is Platonic attraction and Sexual attraction.
    Homosexuality is about same gender sexual attraction.

    johnnyqhomo7
    I am not into effeminate guys.

    Stephenoabc
    Please study Astrology and learn basic human incarnation and personality and learn diversity appreciation.
    Maybe take Psychology 101 and pay attention to the chapter/s on human sexuality.

    The human personality has feminine components (Astrology teaches that). Second, the human personality has influences from mothers, aunts, grandmothers. Third, the human personality has inner child needs. [Women and children] Fourth, the feminine can be emotional and beauty and every personality has the Moon and Venus in their chart and on their Astro-Carto-Graphy map (get yours done).

    All men have the Moon and Venus in their personality. It is an error and a delusion to say "I am not into effeminate guys," which would mean I am not into other people and I am not fully into myself because I do not understand my own nature.

    johnnyqhomo7
    If someone is a homosexual male, wouldn't that make him more masculine

    Stephenoabc
    That would make his psyche more bisexual because of the absence of the feminine incarnated in his inner circle.
    That is, if the psyche tends towards being functional as opposed to dysfunctional/psychopathic/sociopathic/criminal.
    The highly functional human psyche will fill the void.

    johnnyqhomo7
    more masculine as being he has no use for women?

    Stephenoabc
    No use for planet Venus / archetype Venus.
    No use for the Moon / archetype Moon.
    Likely manifesting in not only the shunning of women and the feminine but human rights violations against women and the feminine, degrading one's own humanity, retarding one's own psyche, community, society, and civilization.
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    Apr 21, 2017 1:53 PM GMT
    The Moon and Mother Earth is life giving.
    The Lunar North Node informs us why we have the gift of life.

    Not all people have their North Node in House 7, opposite the self--House 7 being the place where we are opposite of being self-centered.
    Diversity appreciation matures us by experiences of self-lessness and the centering on not me, others, the opposite of me.

    The mentally healthy homosexual man accepts the conception of his own birth. "You have no need for women, you never even kissed a woman." Have gratitude and love for both sides of the human condition.
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    Apr 21, 2017 2:34 PM GMT
    spider said
    Homosexuality means your sexually attracted to men exclusivly. Bi means you like both men and women. Being a gay male myself, came out at 13 and never even kissed a woman, Being gay does not make u less of a man. Gays come in all sorts of shapes, sizes and types just like hetro sexuals

    +1

    And having spent 25 years in a US Army uniform, I can tell our OP that many, if not most civilian gay men are as brave or braver than any soldiers I ever knew. Oh, some gay guys may be swissy & fem in their mannerisms, but in a crunch they are tigers.

    I think they had to be, growing up gay. Or maybe it's in their genes, I dunno. But I often say that in a life-threatening crisis, all other things being equal, I'd rather have a gay man by my side than a straight one. And not so we could cry on each other's shoulder. LOL!

    Who was it rebelled and fought the police, hand to hand, and started the Stonewall Riots, forever changing the gay landscape? It wasn't straight men. It's said, and reported in some accounts, that it was actually some drag queens who started that riot. And who fought the fiercest. Others dispute that, but it's not questioned that they were there and fought, too.

    Never underestimate the courage or masculinity of gay men.
  • bro4bro

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    Apr 21, 2017 4:48 PM GMT
    johnnyqhomo7 saidI am not into drag queens and effeminate guys,but that is all i see here in nj.


    That's because you don't see all the ones who look just like everybody else.
  • argus

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    Apr 21, 2017 8:33 PM GMT
    Being a homosexual, you are allowed to claim lube as a tax deductible expense.
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    Apr 21, 2017 8:47 PM GMT
    argus said
    Being a homosexual, you are allowed to claim lube as a tax deductible expense.

    Well, that's certainly relevant to this discusion. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 25, 2017 8:42 AM GMT
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  • two_meninlove

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    Apr 25, 2017 10:01 AM GMT
    The complexities of bisexuality.
    Cut it down, anyone born with the ability to root bot genders.
    Fantasizing is one thing, doing is another.
    Something Bona Fide Homosexuals & hetrosexuals are not born to be.
    We're just not wired that way.
  • maggass

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    Apr 29, 2017 4:22 PM GMT
    It means being

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    May 01, 2017 8:30 AM GMT
    maggass saidIt means being

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  • k15thelement

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    May 01, 2017 9:44 PM GMT
    a shitty childhood and dismal adulthood ?