Apr 20, 2017 11:50 PM GMT
Let's say you are friends with Andy and Brad separately. Andy hooks up with Brad, then blabs to you about it, after making you promise not to tell Brad. A third guy does the same thing. Later Brad jokes about being abstinent, and you react with "well i've met at least 2 guys you've hooked up with!" Now Brad is dying to know who ratted him out because he's very private with his sex life and wouldn't hook up with any potential mutual friends without making them swear to secrecy. Do you tell him or not? Or does it depend on who you're closer friends with; or whether blabbing about hooking up or breaking confidentiality is the greater transgression? Does it hinge on whether Andy admitted that Brad swore him to secrecy (and thus broke his own promise) thus making it fair to expose him to Brad; vs if he made no such promise?