Why are all these people posting topics who dont have photo's?

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    Feb 19, 2009 3:34 AM GMT
    Its kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

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    Feb 19, 2009 3:56 AM GMT
    Well, rather than post their questions on Craigslist.. these people come to RJ, create an account, ask their question in the forums, gets some responses, and then never come back. At least that's what I've noticed lately.

    As for the long term members that regularly contribute.. I'm sure they have their reasons for not having public pics. I'm not going to berate them for it. I'm not here for hook-ups. So I could care less if they're a hot looking fuck or if they have a giant hairy mole on their nose. icon_lol.gif

    If you're really curious, go back and look for old threads on this topic. From what I've found, there were quite a few heated/angry discussions about no pics or headless pics in a profile.
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    Feb 19, 2009 4:03 AM GMT
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

    Why is it annoying to you? Why do you care?
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:01 PM GMT
    justmatt20009 said
    Caslon9000 said
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

    Why is it annoying to you? Why do you care?


    umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer... Like you... THATS WHY WE CARE


    That's why you don't talk to someone who is A) Pictureless, or B) Not verified.
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:07 PM GMT
    lilmann said
    justmatt20009 said
    Caslon9000 said
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

    Why is it annoying to you? Why do you care?


    umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer... Like you... THATS WHY WE CARE


    That's why you don't talk to someone who is A) Pictureless, or B) Not verified.


    This is discrimination against facless / unverified members !!!

    Why would you care how does they look like ??? it's not like youre gonna sleep with them or marry them .. some people like communicating in forums because they don't have to dial with looks , it's all about what they say or discuss or feel ...
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:08 PM GMT
    justmatt20009 said
    Caslon9000 said
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

    Why is it annoying to you? Why do you care?


    umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer... Like you... THATS WHY WE CARE


    when you grow up, you'll realize there are bigger things in life to worry about and you'll stop competing for the Queen of the Month Award-- But you have won it today.
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:08 PM GMT
    I meant that for that guy ghost. My buddy list has faceless and unverified members on it and I talk to them often.
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:08 PM GMT
    It only bothers me if they are posting topics about people who have pictures...Otherwise I don't care..
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:12 PM GMT
    lilmann saidI meant that for that guy ghost. My buddy list has faceless and unverified members on it and I talk to them often.


    Your point wasn't clear ..
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:16 PM GMT
    justmatt20009 said, "umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer"

    I told him, "That's why you don't talk to someone who is A) Pictureless, or B) Not verified.

    What's not clear?
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    lilmann saidjustmatt20009 said, "umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer"

    I told him, "That's why you don't talk to someone who is A) Pictureless, or B) Not verified.

    What's not clear?


    Don't talk to me you unverified boy!!

    JK JK .. Some of my best friends are unverified ! I support their rights ..

    Ya I see what did you mean ..I thought you meant usually, ignore these people ... not particualry for this guy who's fatugly90yearoldgeezerphobe..
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:27 PM GMT
    Lol, I am verified =P and I support their rights too! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:37 PM GMT
    lilmann saidLol, I am verified =P and I support their rights too! icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh ... now I see it ... funny how things flipped around ...
    now I am the unverified guy and you are the good one who accepted me after all .. : P

    I don't care for the word verified .. unless the guy have amazing pictures with a perfect body and a model face ... that been taken with a perfect camera ..

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    Feb 20, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    Lol.. I know right!
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    Feb 20, 2009 7:07 PM GMT
    BodyWork4 said
    justmatt20009 said
    Caslon9000 said
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?

    Why is it annoying to you? Why do you care?


    umm well its really fucking annoying when some loser jackass sends you a message and he has no photo and turns out to be a fat ugly 90 year old geezer... Like you... THATS WHY WE CARE


    when you grow up, you'll realize there are bigger things in life to worry about and you'll stop competing for the Queen of the Month Award-- But you have won it today.


    Yay I won queen of the month... Your so wise!
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    Feb 20, 2009 7:10 PM GMT
    LOL. They do it because they can. No harm no foul I guess.

    If you are on this site then you should already know what you are doing here. You have the power to not answer them or to even respond to the posts that these pictureless/profileless people post.

    Once you get past the fact that they are lacking in something you want to satisfy your curiosity then everything else is cake.

    Talk never cost anyone a thing but time. Alot of you here have that since the majortity of you here post like crazy. Seriously man up and own up and just go about your business. Apply a little common sense and know what you are and aren't willing to deal with.

    As for the those who don't wanna share with us their looks. Meh. Just don't expect anything from those who need verfication and pic in order to carry a conversation.
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    Feb 20, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
    I honestly think its just appropriate for all members to post at least one picture of themselves. After-all this is a social networking Site like facebook. A picture isn't something that provides a sexual connotation but something that shows a persons characteristics and what not. I don't see how being "Mature" has anything to do with it... And if we do have pictures I don't see the correlation of verifying ones self worth? Doesn't everyone like to know that they are liked for who they are? Look at the one guy that called me "Queen of the Day", he has like 1000 pics of himself. Thats the point of a social networking site... To make friends, loves, enemies, and even one night stands. Why would you make a profile just to blog? Isn't it nice to put a face to someone your talking too? If your going to make a profile on any-site and you fail to provide a picture and information about yourself then clearly you are looking for a specific thing. Yes I am "young" as some older gentlemen previous said, so I get very old, fat and disgusting men that most of the time have no pictures asking for ass or to "meet up" through messages or instant message and it gets REALLY annoying when these boxes pop-up. So if I was talking to them far enough into finding out they look like an obese unhealthy person then yes I'd appreciate a picture because sometimes pictures can show things that we have in common... like age... health... physical appearance... I'm also a Nutrition & Dietetics major with a CNA so a healthy appearance to me isn't shallow. And for future reference since someone implied that I use this site for hook ups... is not the case... I'm in a committed relationship for over 4 years now and things are going great. Its ironic how we all quick to judge in certain circumstances, don't you think?

    Just felt I should clear my case...
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    Feb 20, 2009 8:03 PM GMT
    A picture is worth a thousand words, especially if it's current and actually belongs to the poster.
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    Feb 20, 2009 8:06 PM GMT
    Probably because they don't want their face associated with a gay website. If I were in the closet I would do that
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    Feb 23, 2009 7:00 AM GMT
    TheIStrat saidProbably because they don't want their face associated with a gay website. If I were in the closet I would do that


    You nailed it.
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    Feb 23, 2009 7:40 AM GMT
    I have noticed before that there are some profiles that don't have pics and/or ANY profile information. Sometimes maybe they are closeted and fearful but there are also times where it is a troll poster trying to stir up something or even a robot poster .. one was posting stuff about going to a website or something .. those can be spam reported and they will be removed.

    I tend to ignore minimalist profiles.
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    Feb 23, 2009 8:05 AM GMT
    And you care why?

    I know some guys on this site who are not out yet. They're just afraid. Most of us were in that phase.. I know I was.
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    Feb 23, 2009 6:12 PM GMT
    Hidden members posting in forums, is the thing that bugs me.
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    Feb 23, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
    paxcrunner saidIts kinda annoying... in 2009... get a freakin picture... or are you waiting for snail mail to send it to RJ ?



    I agree with you. This si a social network and all members should be required to have a face picture. Not just a torso picture.

    I typically will not converse with soemone without a face picture. I think it says alot about thier charater when they are afraid to show thier face.
  • Rookz

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    Feb 23, 2009 6:47 PM GMT
    Why should it matter?

    Why should you care?

    Their trivial, move on. We have bigger nuisances in our lives that we should be taking care of.