Pressure Points in Upper Back?

  • maxsegrem

    Posts: 3

    Jun 08, 2017 3:00 PM GMT
    Okay, a bit of an odd story coming... but I'd like some advice if you have any off of this.

    A friend I work with had a glass candy dish with a lid that had a small, round handle. It probably was the size of a marble, maybe smaller. I grabbed the lid one day, and moved it across his back; he gasped. I asked what happened, and he said it felt good. I did it some more, and he ended up spasming multiple times to where he had to put his head on his desk while I did it. It seemed to get spots around the shoulder blades, upper spine, and above the shoulder blades. I asked if he'd try it on me, and it worked. It felt absolutely amazing.

    We did this several times across a few weeks. He's a straight guy, but he didn't mind (it felt that good). He also didn't mind returning it. But one day he took the dish home. It might have made things awkward a bit.

    I tried to find my own "spot activator." Found a dish with a metal lid that had a small, diamond shape on top. No go. Found another glass lid that was round, but it was a larger knob. It doesn't work. He's fine with me trying; I even ask if it does anything and helll say "nope." I joke with him about looking for it at home, and he's okay with me telling him to find it. He acknowledges that it felt amazing whenever I talk about it.

    Anyway, my main *question* is: What the heck was happening? Are there magical orgasmic wave spots on the upper back?
    And most importantly, how can I make this happen again on him? What can I buy or try? Has anyone encountered this?
  • Antarktis

    Posts: 376

    Jun 08, 2017 10:13 PM GMT
    Look into "The Yellow Emperor's Book of Medicine."

    As to the orb. try heating marbles of various sizes in warm natural oils before applying pressure. You're thumbs will work better though as it is easier to manipulate the meridians and make the proper clock wise and counter clockwise motions to activate the Chi/Qi/Ki .
  • Antarktis

    Posts: 376

    Jun 08, 2017 11:43 PM GMT
    P.S. ......... Diamond shaped? "Ouch! Motherf***er get off me!"
  • maxsegrem

    Posts: 3

    Jun 08, 2017 11:54 PM GMT
    Oops! Lol, meant "pyramid " shape. icon_razz.gif

    I'll look up that book. I had tried just using my fingers and thumbs on him, but I couldn't hit it. All this was done while he was sitting at his desk, working.

    Will what it says in that book and marbles cause him to light up like the lid did?
    I posted on another site, and someone responded that there are pressure points in the traps. They recommended this
    But I've used one before on myself, I didn't expereince the same thing.
  • Element1313

    Posts: 152

    Jun 09, 2017 6:34 AM GMT
    I study Qi Gong . The points that are genenerally link to sex are in the feet knees and under the nose. Kidneys pioints are linked to sex Never heard about the back but guys always respond to a back rubs. Your friend may be using this "massage" as a way ease into male to male intimacy with you. Neck and shoulder massage is an easy way to break the ice with any curious str8 guy.
  • Antarktis

    Posts: 376

    Jun 09, 2017 2:32 PM GMT
    He's right about Qi gong, but if you can't find a class, take up aikido with a teacher that specializes in ko kyu ho. Some will tell you reiki (which is good) but not the same.
  • maxsegrem

    Posts: 3

    Jun 09, 2017 7:00 PM GMT
    Element1313 saidI study Qi Gong . The points that are genenerally link to sex are in the feet knees and under the nose. Kidneys pioints are linked to sex

    Under the nose? How does that work?

    There's a chance that I might have been hitting near his kidneys with the lid knob before. Or it could have been near the traps/lats and also kidneys.