Dating

  • jungleq

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    Feb 20, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    You meet a real hot guy at a club. You exchange a few word and phone numbers. A couple of day's later he call's and invite's you out to dinner. You meet for dinner and after 20 minutes of ackward conversation you both feel very comfortable and really start opening up to each other. After dinner you go to a quiet coffee shop and talk for hours, Everything is going great and there is a total connection between the two of you. You finally tell him the you are postive. And he is not.


    The question to you. If you were the negative guy would you still want to date the positive guy icon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    Feb 20, 2009 12:53 AM GMT
    I recall thinking about this back when QAF was on.....Robert Gant was the poz guy...

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    ....Yeah I'd make it work.
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    Feb 20, 2009 12:59 AM GMT
    Honestly, no.

    I'd admire the guts and openness of the other guy though.
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    Feb 20, 2009 1:02 AM GMT
    I started watching QAF a few weeks ago and just got the part where Michael's lover is positive. Given the scenario you describe, I think I would say that I needed a little time to think about this. But I certainly wouldn't rule out dating or a possible relationship on the basis of serum discordance.
  • calibro

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    Feb 20, 2009 2:17 AM GMT
    I've only gone out on a date with one positive guy, and he back off before it became anything more, so I am not sure how I would react in the context. I'd like to think I'd at least like to continue seeing the guy (on a non-sexual level) until I discovered what my feelings were for him. If they were genuine, I'd stay.
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    Feb 20, 2009 2:37 AM GMT
    If there was a real connection I wouldn't rule out dating. I'd probably devour articles and books on the subject as well. I'd just take it slow and hope the other guy was patient with me.
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    Beaux saidI recall thinking about this back when QAF was on.....Robert Gant was the poz guy...

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    ....Yeah I'd make it work.


    OH, his pic still melts me! icon_redface.gif

    I've dated poz guys, but I wouldn't until I had my act together. I'm willing to have a safe relationship, but condoms break. So, if I were to be financially secure and able to take care of myself if the happy endind took a twist and after all the safe sex I still got it, I would. People live normal lives while poz, but the medical bills come at some point and I cant take the risk right now.
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:20 AM GMT
    this is guna sound really shady, but u probably want the truth. I would not date a pos guy. call it ignorance or whatever. and if i did REALLY like the guy and started dating him there would be no sex. im a hypochondriac im afraid of mixing vitamins with advil...
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:40 AM GMT
    Sure. I've done it before.
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    Feb 20, 2009 4:58 AM GMT


    I once chased a guy for two years back in the 80s. Man was he nice. Never could meet him; he was always either leaving places when I arrived or was surrounded with a group of friends that made walking up to him and chatting a tad intimidating.

    Then it happened. He was alone one night at a club. Yes! He told me he had full blown AIDS. Did that stop me? Hell no! Heheh, in half an hour we were back at his place. ( What can I say, I had two years of frustrated lust built up.) All kinds of stuff took place that I'll leave to your fertile imaginations.
    Next-day blues for Doug. He didn't want to get involved.



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    Feb 20, 2009 1:57 PM GMT
    Dated, and watched him die. I will forever love David.
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    Feb 22, 2009 12:40 AM GMT
    ^ Well, that gets me thinking (or perhaps rethinking).

    Thanks for your comment.