how long have you gone without sex? and how many times a day do you think about it?

  • jock_1

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    Feb 20, 2009 1:04 AM GMT
    ok guys, i was watching a funny movie the other night "40 days and 40 nights" . i dont know if i have reached my prime age for sex, but i have been going crazy lately thinking about and having sex.

    i think about it too many times to count in a day.

    the longest i have have gone without had been 3 weeks when i got hurt last year.
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    Feb 20, 2009 1:15 AM GMT
    good lord....when I was in college, I had to wank 6 times a day....a real pain in trying to get any studying done.....you are perfectly normal.

    I was celibate for 5 years when AIDS first appeared and we had no idea how it was spread.....celibate if you dont count self-abuse!
  • rnch

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    Feb 20, 2009 11:16 AM GMT
    does someone else have to be in the same room to qualify for "having sex"?
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    Feb 20, 2009 12:02 PM GMT

    I think about it few times a day ..
    The longest I'v gone without it was 3 months .. it was a hard period .. I was so desperate for sex that I'd do it with anyone has the Y chromosome ..

    I'll never do this to myself again, it's self toruring ..
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    Feb 20, 2009 12:46 PM GMT
    Longest period was nearly 3 weeks during Army Basic Training, when we were all living together without privacy. I was usually so tired I'd sleep all night, but one time I woke up around 2 AM to pee. In the latrine I sat on a toilet in an enclosed stall (in the previous Reception Station the toilets had no stalls at all, completely open to view), and jerked off that way, first time in my life I did it sitting down. I remember it was an enormous load and I felt so relieved.

    After that I never again went such a long time between wanks. Once my training period was finished and I got regular assignments and living quarters, I got back to my normal routine of several times a day, which has been the pattern almost without interruption for the rest of my life.

    Needless to say, I think about sex that often and more, I guess dozens of times a day. But nothing I keep track of, and most are just very fleeting thoughts, not lengthy daydreams.
  • maximumrisk

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    Feb 20, 2009 2:18 PM GMT
    I have been without since july last year, so I think this would be the longest period I have been without. I do think about sex from time to time, but it is not like I cant without It. It depends on the day,but usually I dont do selfservice icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 20, 2009 3:43 PM GMT
    20 years apparently...

    http://www.ketv.com/cnn-news/18755523/detail.html
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    Feb 20, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    I've gone over one full year!!
    unless your including masturbation, in that case mmm 15hrs
  • helium

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    Feb 20, 2009 8:31 PM GMT
    The longest I ever gone without sex or wanking off was about 7 days. It was a hard four days since I was on vacation with my family and we were in the same hotel room pretty much. When I got home, that night in my room I jacked off and it felt like such a relief to me. As for thinking of sex, I would say it's pretty much about 90% of the time.
  • jock_1

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    Feb 20, 2009 11:37 PM GMT
    i mean sex as in any kind...masterbation included
  • Ritournelle

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    Feb 21, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    If masturbation is included, like an 12 hours. Without, 9 months.
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    Feb 21, 2009 5:03 AM GMT
    funny pictures
  • BostonGuy6

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    Feb 21, 2009 6:10 AM GMT
    At this point it's been almost a year since I had sex. And It's been a month almost since I've jerked off cuz theres always people at my house. and because I'm lazy haha. So basically I lost my V card when I was 17 had sex twice, and then didn't have sex for another 2 years and then had sex 2 times and then 2 years later got a boyfriend and had sex constantly for 6 mos., then we broke up and now I've been sexless for soooooooo long I need a man to grab on to and cuddle and play around with his manly body icon_confused.gif hopefully my prince charming will come soon.
  • Buddha

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    Feb 21, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    Well including masturbation is a pretty short while... but as for the other kind of sex, i think almost... a year or 1 1/2 year was the longest time. I remember that I hadn't really reflected on it that much until a friend, who was also gay of course, thought that it was really sad... the gay world is wonderful like that.
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    Feb 21, 2009 9:41 AM GMT
    Danrennt98 saidAt this point it's been almost a year since I had sex. And It's been a month almost since I've jerked off cuz theres always people at my house. and because I'm lazy haha. So basically I lost my V card when I was 17 had sex twice, and then didn't have sex for another 2 years and then had sex 2 times and then 2 years later got a boyfriend and had sex constantly for 6 mos., then we broke up and now I've been sexless for soooooooo long I need a man to grab on to and cuddle and play around with his manly body icon_confused.gif hopefully my prince charming will come soon.



    *WORSHIPING* ..

    I thought I was a weirdo cause I jerk off once a week .... you must be that strong ..

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    Feb 21, 2009 1:24 PM GMT
    Well it's nice to no that I'm not alone.

    It's been about 5-6 months since I last had sex, and it's pretty much the longest that I've ever gone so far. Strange thing is that I don't really miss it that much.

    Longest without masturbating would have to be a month and a half. I was living it halls, and the walls were paper thin so that didn't help me when I was 'in the mood'.
  • seaboijo

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    Feb 27, 2009 3:53 AM GMT
    I've gone without sex or masturbation for like 100 days.
    It ended on one Saturday afternoon, my cum covered my chest and abs and dripped down my bed sheets. HOT!
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    Feb 27, 2009 8:18 PM GMT
    usually I cant spend more than 2 days without even masturbating, it just comes to my head and I have to do it.
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    Feb 27, 2009 9:55 PM GMT

    Real live sex with another guy? A couple of months (i.e. the past couple of months). Waaaaaaaaay too long.

    Rubbing One Out? Usually a day or so. Lately tho, maybe eight hours.

    Some things about law school suck really bad and being sex starved is one of those things.
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    Feb 27, 2009 10:01 PM GMT
    Actual sex - mid November

    Jacking off - Last night, around midnight I'd say.
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    Feb 28, 2009 2:26 PM GMT
    Longest without masterbation: 24 hours. I can't sleep if i don't jack off. I just lay awake horny as hell.

    Longest without sex with another guy: 3 months. Had colon surgery and had absolutely no interest in getting fucked in the ass until i was back to 100%.
  • David0728

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    Mar 09, 2009 12:46 AM GMT
    Believe it or not guys...it has been 3 years and 4 months!!! At first, I was going to be abstinent because I wanted to meet someone nice and sweet. Well, that never happened. Now I want to at least go out to dinner with someone before I sleep with them. But that still hasn't happened. I'm doomed!
  • jock_1

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    Mar 28, 2009 1:30 PM GMT


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    YIKES david0728, i would explode
  • heyman

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    Apr 06, 2009 7:54 PM GMT


    i guess im in the same situation... im in college.... i think i reach the best of my sexual desire... every hour or less i think about sex.... and i begin and erection... im always trying to contain it... lol.... i wish i had some one with who download my energy... lol.. any one interested??? icon_lol.gif