Jul 28, 2017 11:51 PM GMT
I'm pretty new to really being with guys and being okay with it. Had to get some counseling. But now that I am, I think I might actually want a relationship. Thing is, I don't want a storybook thing. I just want to meet a guy and see if we are into each other, like each other, get along, and then talk about what each of us wants and decide if we want to build something together. I don't know what it would look like, and tbh, I really just want the dude to say what he wants, hear what I want, and we figure it out together. Don't know if it means open or closed, fwb or up to marriage. No idea. It doesn't seem as easy as it does for straight people. My question is, do other guys want this kind of thing or is it crazy? I mean, I think I just want to figure it out with a man, and if we get together and decide to change the commitment or want out, we talk about that too. Clear, responsible, direct. I don't need perfect safety or Prince Charming. I'd simply like honesty and responsibility. There's nothing wrong with being adults about stuff, and I don't think there's anything wrong if things change and our feelings change. Or maybe there's some other way to build something with another guy? Kinda lost here.