Sep 06, 2017 6:04 AM GMT
I'm a grad student. Last semester I walked into the library and saw this really attractive guy looking at me. His gaze wouldn't break; everywhere I went, his eyes followed, and he was grinning nervously. I went up to him, started some conversation and flirted a bit. He got kind of nervous, and then wouldn't talk to me or even look at me for the rest of the semester. I saw him again recently, and gingerly asked if I had made him uncomfortable last semester. He shrugged and told me not to worry about it. I recently found on Instagram that he definitely is into guys, and I'd like to try again with him, this time without being so aggressive. Should I ask him if he'd like to grab coffee, and if so, when would be a good time to approach him?