Gay Men: Do you care if other gay men find you attractive or not?

  • Brock700

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    Sep 11, 2017 1:33 AM GMT
    When you are around other gay men in the workplace, club, school, house parties, etc, do you care if they find you attractive or not?
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    Sep 11, 2017 5:21 AM GMT
    I don't care now, but I may once gay men STOP finding me attractive. icon_twisted.gif
  • spider

    Posts: 331

    Sep 11, 2017 2:27 PM GMT
    Never could give a fkying fuck..if any one found me attractive or not...ok.looks help but if you are going to base a marriage on what you or the other guy looks like then it wont last for long
    You can take me as you find me and I will do the same..mind u being a size queen then a big frontal bulge goes a long wat...lol
  • Happenis

    Posts: 385

    Sep 11, 2017 2:43 PM GMT
    I care about looking neat and presentable when at work but I can care less about whether anyone else actually finds me attractive (whether they're a woman or a gay man). As long as my boyfriend is happy then I'm good to go!

    Its funny, when I'm not at work or anywhere formal then I completely give zero craps about looking nice. I've gone shopping at 7-11 and Wal-Mart in my underwear and dress sloppy 75% of the time (pajama pants, basketball shorts, flip flops, hoodies and wrinkled t- shirts are most of my wardrobe).
  • HndsmKansan

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    Sep 11, 2017 2:52 PM GMT
    I think most of care how we are perceived by others. Sure I like to be "considered attractive" along with a half a dozen other things.
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    Sep 11, 2017 3:42 PM GMT
    Only when I want to hook up or date someone.
  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4884

    Sep 11, 2017 4:20 PM GMT
    Of course! Who doesn't want to look good?
  • CuriousJockAZ

    Posts: 20505

    Sep 11, 2017 5:21 PM GMT
    I think most gay men, by nature, want to be looked at as "attractive". But, always remember, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". No one is "attractive" to everyone.
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    Sep 11, 2017 5:40 PM GMT
    Dress for success!
    Hold yourself high and in confidence.

    You never know who you'll meet in a day.

    Personality, confidence and a well groomed man is a winning combination.
  • LostSailor

    Posts: 232

    Sep 12, 2017 6:15 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI don't care now, but I may once gay men STOP finding me attractive. icon_twisted.gif


    Well put
  • Timbre

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    Sep 12, 2017 2:53 PM GMT
    I mean, Probably if I was interested in the person myself, but everyone has their own individual tastes so if someone doesn't find me attractive, it is what it is. I know they'll be others that do.