Can't bottom anymore?:/

  • JKhan89

    Posts: 16

    Nov 13, 2017 4:45 AM GMT
    Hey, so basically for the past two years, I haven't been able to bottom. I had noticed that I lost sensitivity and sexual pleasure down there, and my anal canal (from the outer sphincter towards the inner sphincter) has this extra tight ring in between them which wasn't there before. This makes it difficult for anything to get past the first sphincter. Without the pleasure sensations/receptors, anything entering me feels very painful, which I had no problem with before.

    I've had two sigmoidoscopies to check for cancer etc, and the specialist said all they could find was just some swelling. However, I still don't understand why the loss of pleasure and that odd tightx ring that I never had before.

    Does anyone have any idea what this may be? I'm getting pretty depressed because I can't have sex anymore like I used to, and I know I'm more meant to be a bottom than a top. Thanks for any help.
  • Jhazz

    Posts: 28

    Nov 13, 2017 3:39 PM GMT
    How long has it been?
  • JKhan89

    Posts: 16

    Nov 13, 2017 4:00 PM GMT
    Two years
  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4913

    Nov 13, 2017 5:06 PM GMT
    I'd find a new doctor. Can you poop OK? If you can, then maybe there's another explanation.
  • JKhan89

    Posts: 16

    Nov 13, 2017 8:12 PM GMT
    Yeah I can go to the bathroom fine no problem, just worried about the loss of sexual pleasure and this tight ring down there..