I hate myself due to this habit...

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    Nov 20, 2017 9:45 PM GMT
    I'm helpful guy..It became like habit to me. always think about others... For fresher members here I check newst members profiles...i found mistakes I correct them by messeges... Most of the wrong they write ((HIV +)) ... One day I send message to new member I said : hi dear ...there is mistake on your profile on HIV option plz correct it to((HIV -)) I hope it's written by mistake not fact... Warm regards.....
    He replied to me :it wasn't mistake but thank you....
    I can't describe how much I disappeared.. I felt really bad about that plz dear if you read this forum I don't mean any pain your heart plz accept my apology... But really I depressed... I'm sorry agian dear
  • Ubeaut

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    Nov 22, 2017 1:56 PM GMT
    No you're not helpful, you may like to think of yourself that way but it ain't necessarily so.

    It's just not particularly ethical to go around making comments about other folks' HIV status.
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    Nov 24, 2017 4:03 PM GMT
    Ubeaut saidNo you're not helpful, you may like to think of yourself that way but it ain't necessarily so.

    It's just not particularly ethical to go around making comments about other folks' HIV status.


    Agree, good response
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    Nov 28, 2017 10:09 AM GMT
    Ubeaut saidNo you're not helpful, you may like to think of yourself that way but it ain't necessarily so.

    It's just not particularly ethical to go around making comments about other folks' HIV status.


    Angree reply...do You know me?
    I thought you are owner of realjock... Fuck off
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    Nov 28, 2017 10:13 AM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    Ubeaut saidNo you're not helpful, you may like to think of yourself that way but it ain't necessarily so.

    It's just not particularly ethical to go around making comments about other folks' HIV status.


    Agree, good response





    Hahaha..agree? . silly guy
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 28, 2017 10:42 PM GMT
    So, English is not your primary language. Quick lesson: Never use "dear" when addressing some guy on the internet. It will be a big turnoff in itself. "Dear" is reserved for your relatives, love partners, and very closest friends, and even then, probably not used at all on the internet, but only vocally or in written letters.

    Using "dear" as you did gives the impression of a phony attempt to portray closeness, which is not there.
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    Nov 29, 2017 8:38 PM GMT
    Suetonius saidSo, English is not your primary language. Quick lesson: Never use "dear" when addressing some guy on the internet. It will be a big turnoff in itself. "Dear" is reserved for your relatives, love partners, and very closest friends, and even then, probably not used at all on the internet, but only vocally or in written letters.

    Using "dear" as you did gives the impression of a phony attempt to portray closeness, which is not there.


    OK Mr idol
  • Happenis

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    Jan 21, 2018 6:55 PM GMT
    SOONY saidI'm helpful guy..It became like habit to me. always think about others... For fresher members here I check newst members profiles...i found mistakes I correct them by messeges... Most of the wrong they write ((HIV +)) ... One day I send message to new member I said : hi dear ...there is mistake on your profile on HIV option plz correct it to((HIV -)) I hope it's written by mistake not fact... Warm regards.....
    He replied to me :it wasn't mistake but thank you....
    I can't describe how much I disappeared.. I felt really bad about that plz dear if you read this forum I don't mean any pain your heart plz accept my apology... But really I depressed... I'm sorry agian dear


    Lol, no offense but if anybody felt bold enough to take it upon themselves to make assumptions about me and then tell them to me; in addition to trying to correct my spelling or anything else on my profile then i'd tell them to fuck off in a hot second! That guy responded more positively than a lot of others would've.

    I'm sure you have good intentions but bad approach, man!