Coffee with hot guy

  • mdclark492

    Posts: 8

    Jan 11, 2018 8:10 PM GMT
    There's a very good looking guy who sits near me in the library often. After exchanging friendly conversation for a few weeks, I asked him if he'd be interested in grabbing coffee. We've set a day and time to meet; I'm just kind of nervous about what happens next. I definitely feel that I've been getting subtle signals from him that he's interested in me also, but I can't be 100% sure. What are some good ways of dropping hints or asking questions in a way that won't alienate him?
  • bro4bro

    Posts: 2045

    Jan 11, 2018 9:09 PM GMT
    "So, are you dating anyone?"

    He may ask that question before you do since it's an obvious invitation to open up about yourself. If he does, or if he gives you a non-committal answer and turns it back over to you, just be honest and casually let him know you date guys. You should be able to do that without alienating him, even if he turns out to be not interested.
  • mdclark492

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    Jan 12, 2018 2:17 AM GMT
    bro4bro said"So, are you dating anyone?"

    He may ask that question before you do since it's an obvious invitation to open up about yourself. If he does, or if he gives you a non-committal answer and turns it back over to you, just be honest and casually let him know you date guys. You should be able to do that without alienating him, even if he turns out to be not interested.


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    Jan 12, 2018 5:12 AM GMT
    Just chat a while and you'll find something you're both interested in.

    Do you like sports or the sport of watching?? lol

    Humor is a good ice breaker.
  • Element1313

    Posts: 150

    Jan 13, 2018 10:01 PM GMT
    Make some casual friendly physical contact. If he is into you he will respond.


    uote][cite]bro4bro said[/cite]"So, are you dating anyone?"

    He may ask that question before you do since it's an obvious invitation to open up about yourself. If he does, or if he gives you a non-committal answer and turns it back over to you, just be honest and casually let him know you date guys. You should be able to do that without alienating him, even if he turns out to be not interested.[/quote]
  • Ubeaut

    Posts: 239

    Jan 14, 2018 2:26 AM GMT
    I have a novel idea, you could just try toget to know him and pay him some interest rather than obsessing about your internal dialogue.
  • gayv

    Posts: 214

    Jan 14, 2018 11:05 PM GMT
    I don´t know. I´m not good about it.
    Just check it to put yourself in a secure situation.
  • tonyatl

    Posts: 115

    Feb 23, 2018 6:58 PM GMT
    He may not be gay. You need to determine that first. the dating question is a good opener.