Sydneyrugbyjock73 saidOr you could go on PrEP and stop blaming everyone else. So Timmm55 this is the attitude you bring to “educate” people who so ignorantly assume that POZ men stil have some of the responsibility for non transmission. Your attitude isn’t for shared responsibility, it’s for a reversal of responsibility from what u perceive as being formally solely at the hands of POZ men now according to you it’s soley on HIV neg men. In the context of claiming your stigmata has it occurred to you that you are merely re-enforcing negative stereotypes which effectively hindered those majority of HIV POZ men who don’t share your views. History has handed you a platform to try to convince people to blindly trust POZ men to bare back and it matters not that you don’t say it directly, most people who see your posts consistently already know for themselves your agenda. Stop hindering the majority and keep your anger born out of past rejections under wraps so real change and trust can build between Sero concordant partners as a permanent change instead of out of guilt or following a fad. Prep is a great tool but should not be relied upon in isolation. Again I will also state that rejected someone because they are POZ is wrong. However that doesn’t mean that despite bio medical advances that POZ men are now angels who never make human mistakes and that some even deliberately lie. Not sure how you don’t get it. Any POZ man who just takes a new partners word for it about being undetectable is as at risk as they are if someone says they are negative. Because either could be wrong, please try for one second to understand that. I made it clear I was only talking about new partners who’s status is unknown because you can’t be certain they have the status they claim to have , full stop, period
" according to you it’s soley on HIV neg men" AGAIN don't put words in my mouth. You can barely make sentences into paragraphs.
" Stop hindering the majority and keep your anger born out of past rejections" there's an example of your presumed HIV Negative superiority. You are not the majority. You are out of touch. At least here in So Cal most (but not all) understand the uses of antiviral medications. They "get" PrEP, "Treatment as Prevention" and PEP. In the US HIV has fallen from 50,000 to 35,000. Not enough. More needs to be done. I still see "HIV-, UB2" and their only prevention is "condoms" at least according to profiles on line. Which makes THEM the most susceptible to acquiring new HIV transmissions.
" Any POZ man who just takes a new partners word for it about being undetectable is as at risk as they are if someone says they are negative. Because either could be wrong, please try for one second to understand that."
WTF are you talking about? IF I am with a POZ man and I am undetectable, what do you think happens? Nothing!
I've certainly been with POZ men who are not on ART. It doesn't affect my Viral Load and I don't affect them adversely. I will probably mention, ever so casually (lol), how beneficial ART is for yourself and society. But not taking meds is ultimately their decision. Just as not taking advantage of PrEP is to Negative men.
"doesn’t mean..... that POZ men are now angels who never make human mistakes and that some even deliberately lie." You are no angel either. I'm sure you lie. Stop with the accusations and yes.....STIGMATIZING.
I say on my profile "I DON'T FUCK STUPID PEOPLE. You need to know about Treatment as Prevention and PrEP. If you don't know, ASK." Hopefully that rids me of people like you who are still waging a war on those who are POZ. Pass me by.......PLEASE.