Going to have someone over for the first time ever to be friends with. He asked if I could massage him..Is he gay?

  • shinghan

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    Jan 30, 2018 12:59 AM GMT
    Omg Im shocked that this is really happening first of all! I posted an ad saying I was looking for friends/gay friends to chat and hang out with. So this 100% straight male contacted me. We chatted for hours about random stuff and it led to him asking me if I could massage his lower body with only my breath on his skin. He stated not to breath on the bits. I accepted and now I don't know what to do. This is totally new to me. Is he secretly gay? What should I do?! Any insght would be appreciated!
  • Apparition

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    Jan 30, 2018 1:35 AM GMT
    shinghan saidOmg Im shocked that this is really happening first of all! I posted an ad saying I was looking for friends/gay friends to chat and hang out with. So this 100% straight male contacted me. We chatted for hours about random stuff and it led to him asking me if I could massage his lower body with only my breath on his skin. He stated not to breath on the bits. I accepted and now I don't know what to do. This is totally new to me. Is he secretly gay? What should I do?! Any insght would be appreciated!


    you should cup his bits tightly so as not to get breath on the gay boys body
  • shinghan

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    Jan 30, 2018 1:43 AM GMT
    I dunno man! His body is a beast to say the least!
  • NOLAman13

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    Jan 30, 2018 5:36 AM GMT
    Gay.
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    Jan 30, 2018 12:00 PM GMT
    shinghan saidOmg Im shocked that this is really happening first of all! I posted an ad saying I was looking for friends/gay friends to chat and hang out with. So this 100% straight male contacted me. We chatted for hours about random stuff and it led to him asking me if I could massage his lower body with only my breath on his skin. He stated not to breath on the bits. I accepted and now I don't know what to do. This is totally new to me. Is he secretly gay? What should I do?! Any insght would be appreciated!


    Have you ever heard of the concept- Just say no

    I swear you guys must be smoking something to come up with some of these stories... eh, experiences.
  • Antarktis

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    Jan 30, 2018 4:11 PM GMT
    He's hoping for a happy ending
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 30, 2018 5:12 PM GMT
    He is not as straight as he claims to be. He is most likely bisexual.
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    Jan 30, 2018 6:09 PM GMT
    shinghan said[...] him asking me if I could massage his lower body with only my breath on his skin. He stated not to breath on the bits.


    What do you exactly mean by "massage his lower body only my breath on his skin"? And, where did you post this ad?

    Just b/c he lets you massage him, doesn't mean he's gay. Hell, he could ask you to blow him but that, too, doesn't mean he's gay.

    Just be careful not to be taken for a ride. If he's str8, the power dynamics are in his favour. You, being the gay guy, will be his puppy dog, doing anything and everything for him in the hopes that maybe, just maybe he'll fall in love with you--which will likely NEVER happen.

    Be smart, my young, Asian brother, and don't let him take advantage of you. My suggestion: why don't you take advantage of him (if you aren't already)? That's what I would do. Sleep with him and then ditch him.

  • Element1313

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    Jan 30, 2018 9:17 PM GMT
    It’s a transition strategy for the str8 curious to become gay.