Jan 31, 2018 1:59 AM GMT
I've been talking to this guy for a couple months - he's been wanting to meet since before Christmas, and I finally found time to start seeing him a few weeks ago. I usually prefer other Asians (he's white), but we really hit it off and he's basically hotter than any model. But most recently, on our 5th date, I met his friends, and most of them are Asian. One of them half-jokingly called him a rice queen, which he insisted is not true. He said his last two exes were Arab and black. While walking down the street together, we bumped into another Asian friend of his, who greeted him like an old lover. He's also 6 years younger, and a lot of those twink/jock types r fickle. I'd hate to be part of some rice queen's erm, pokemon collection, and there seems to be no way to really find out where I stand, without seeming paranoid and insecure! Any suggestions?